For some reason I treat girls as if they are made of gold. I never dis respect them and i am very kind to them. I think girls are important. is this normal?
2007-03-04 07:46:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you are a jewel keep up the good work
2007-03-04 07:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is a good thing. Too many men now a days disrespect women. But, honestly as women we sometimes (not all the time, and not every woman) bring it on ourselves. We talk to each other any kind of way, we wear things that doesn't leave much for the imagination, and many woman and girls feel that they have to give a guy sex. If we would start respecting ourselves more (and again this is not every woman. and it isn't wrong to be bad and wear a short skirt every now and then) we would get more respect in turn. Many women get angry when I say that, but those are the ones who disrespect themselves the most.
2007-03-04 16:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by skierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) It kinda sounds like your bragging more than asking a question, and 2) theres actually a physiological reason men do that in fact its the same thing that makes us do stupid things to impress them at times, just survival instinct really, your not any different from any other man, until something affects the way they think about women and overrides instinct, be it negative or positive. I guess keep doing the right thing but dont be stupid or youll just end up a tool. the site where I first found the info is here, of course some of its from experience and some an opinion
2007-03-04 15:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by shojin_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have low self esteem and feel that you have to validate yourself through them. Don't worry so much and take a risk... what's the worst that could happen? You get rejected? Not the end of the world, and if you live like that, with less of a fear of rejection, you'll learn that you don't NEED to validate yourself through other people's acceptance. Don't try to control things that you can't, you can't change the past, so stop living in it, the future isn't here yet so don't worry about it. Live in the present, take a risk, and go talk to that pretty girl that you want to, and make HER know what you like and don't like, instead of catering to her whims for no reason other than she MIGHT accept/like/lay you. Simply put take the chance and DON'T do what hasn't been working in the past, try something new.
2007-03-05 04:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Waddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too nice, girls don't like this. I found out the hard way. If you treat them like gold they will think of you as a push over and not want you.
2007-03-04 15:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of guys out there act like you and a lot don't. Girls like that in a guy though! I think it's totally normal and polite. What kind of girl doesn't want to be treated like a princess?
2007-03-04 15:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by tweetybird259259 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd say that it's very uncommon to find a guy as sweet as that, the world would be a much better place if all guys were like that... but i would say that is the right way to treat a girl
*~*kiNz*~*
2007-03-04 15:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kinz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have to....you have to treat girls with respect because without your mom, who happens to be a girl, you're not here.
2007-03-04 16:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by mcbeth007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the reason is because you want good sex in bed later. Thats very natural
2007-03-04 15:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacause that is the way we are supposed to be treated.
2007-03-04 15:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are lovely. That's what you're supposed to do. I envy the woman you end up with.
2007-03-04 15:50:40 · answer #11 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋