That he cares for you(emotionally) he just is not that physically attracted to you?Can this be fixed?
2007-03-04 07:45:05 · 24 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 5 ft 6 and 110 pound and have always been thin.My boob size is only a 32a but i have gone back to running to make my body more toned. I am 19 and still break out once in a while if stressed so i am buying (proactive).Also my hair is long and curly so i use a lot of gel but i am going to hair salon for the first time this week plus getting my make up done so i can learn how to do it. My guy used to think i was pretty and cute? He now says he likes fuller girls?i am trying hard to compensate!
2007-03-04 07:47:30 · update #1
I takes "two to tango." Sometimes we are physically attracted to someone who does not feel the same way, and it can happen the other way around. Now, don't think there is something wrong with you. Just appreciate yourself for the way you are and find someone where the attraction is mutual. Move on. You will be happy and glad you did.
2007-03-04 07:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Movielota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ofence but who cares about the outside more that whats on the inside. I care about whats on the inside more than he outside. If guy says that he likes you for you and not because of your aperence that is a good thing! That means he likes you even if you had to have no hair or if your hair reached the ground. Hope This Helps. Good Luck!
2007-03-04 15:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by GurlOnTheRoad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen dont do all that just to impress him. thats insaine! I mean he sounds like another freaken typical guy. Dont get wear make up and get toned up just because of him. If he dosnt like you now (i mean really like you) then theres no point of making him you. You would just be making him want your body and not you, and you deffently dont want that. Just stop and forget him.
Nothing is wrong with you at all!!!! dont listen to some of these people who have answered. There have no idea what there talking about. You need to like yourself the way you are and find someone who also does. Dont be something your not, because that would mean he dosnt really like you for who you are, which means you defently need to dump him, for sure.
2007-03-04 15:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Linzi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants **** and a butt. I am not trying to be rude, but to him your body probably looks like a young boy. But the real question is not what he thinks about how you look, it's how do you feel about yourself. Look if you like the way you look then screw him, find another guy, if you feel like less of a woman because you have small breast, then maybe implants will help. Look the bottom line is you need to focus on how you feel. Trust me if this guy even says something like that then he is not the guy for you.
2007-03-04 16:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Changing your appearance for yourself is one thing, but doing it to please your man will not only backfire, it will never be enough with him. People grow and change, and if he doesn't like the way you are today, and is so self-asorbed in looks..then you need to look elsewhere. He clearly is giving you multiple reason for not being attracted to you, so..quit fighting the ultimate outcome he just doesn't deserve to have you and there are many real men out there that do!
2007-03-04 15:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by R & R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That all depends. You shouldn't have to change for anyone anyways. Find someone that likes you for you. If it's really important to you then you should ask him what he doesn't like about you. It might be hard to take the criticism but at least you'll know what to improve on.
2007-03-04 15:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's lacking in a certain feeling for you , such as he don't feel that spark you get when you meet someone your in love with . It's very unlikely that can be fixed honestly . You sound very nice , your deserving of someone whom will adore you just as you are and can find that person . This guy doesn't seem the right match for you , but your match will come along . Good luck to you .
2007-03-04 15:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he doesn't love you for who you are then you will never have a successful relationship with one another. Looks aren't everything, in fact I wish everyone was blind so that the only thing we could see was the personality of people.
2007-03-04 15:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound gorgeous why are you doubting your self over a guy. You need to let him go and and just ave fun there are plenty of guys out there don't get stuck with one that does not appreciate you for you.
2007-03-04 15:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by BBW 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your willing to change the way you look for a guy then yes it can be fixed but it's not worth it you should find a guy that likes you on the inside and the outside
2007-03-04 15:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋