o guys plz help me!!! i have been dating this guy for 3 month, but he treated me more like a sister..i didnt like that...me and my old friend from camp that i didnt c for 2 years reunited..and he began to like me..because in camp i was a little ****..when i was 14...but now i changed..he tried just fooling around with me..and i didnt give in..so he started respecting me, from than on..he felt attached to me and wanted me to give him a chance..and a quinsidence, me and my boyfriend broke up a day after..me and that guy decided to go on a date..but i couldnt let go of my x boyfriend..and he has huge feelings for me 2, which cannot b replaced..i went back with him..that guy found out..and he started saying that..iam a *****..that i went back with my boyfriend..and he said that i have a chance to talk to him..next saturday.. and if i dont make it ..he will never talk to me ever again...plz tell me what should i tell him..i dont want to lose him as a friend.:(
2007-03-04 07:31:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont try being with both of them, decide which one is more important, if you ask for too much u might be left with nothing....
dont choose a friend over a potential friend over a boyfriend, how good of a friend can he be if he threatens to not talk to you ever again anyways.....
2007-03-04 07:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by x2carlosp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a friend who wants to control you and tell you who you can be friends with? He is telling you . . You have a "chance" to talk to him on Saturday or you will never see him again? Who is calling the shots here? He is trying to manipulate you. You should have many friends at your age and if he can't deal with that tell him to get lost. If he truly respected you he wouldn't have called you a name for going back with your boyfriend. You need to open your eyes and see what is really going on around you. Make your own decisions and don't be manipulated like a puppet. This guy has been out of your life for two years and wants to walk right in and tell you what to do or else. He will never talk to you again. I wouldn't give him the time of day.
Good Luck.
2007-03-04 15:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend, you need you choose what you feel most. DO you want him to be that friend or be "more than a friend" If this person means so much to you then he deserves that you respect him enough that you would tell hime what is up. I know that you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. But this answer depends on you. If I were you I would talk to him, let him know how much they meant to me. And if you wanted to be more, try to work somthing out... you wont know what to do until you talk to him. Good luck.
2007-03-04 15:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was a true friend then he wouldn't have called you a *****. and i understand the fact that you don't want to lose him as a friend, but you have feelings for your boyfriend. He needs to accept that. You need to tell him that. I don't really have anything else to say. Because that is the main thing that you should do. I hope this helps.
2007-03-04 15:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u all ready lost him as a Friend it is normal with man (90 %).what kind of guy give u an ultimatum? is he Love u or afraid that u kick him first .talk with him at time u pick if not just let him go it means he is not deserving at u.one day he live u. u see.
2007-03-04 15:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say u just like him a s a friend that u never meant to hurt him that u really love ur ex bf and that u hope he'll forgives u
good luck
2007-03-04 15:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you need to get a better taste in guys. Any guys who treats girls like that deserves to be disrespected bakc. Tell him that your sick of his crap and that he better change or else.
2007-03-04 15:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by alix c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems important to you to still be friends with this guy,I order to still be friends it is important to be honest, and candy coat everything to make it easy to swallow, maybe taking him out to lunch and paying wouldnt be a bad idea, show him that you care.
good luck! ;)
2007-03-04 15:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. tell him you value your friendship and don't want to lose him. honesty works best, even if it's tough.
2007-03-04 15:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Yuki Konoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy s**t you can't spell.
2007-03-04 15:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by th_779 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋