would it be better off gaining trust as friends for starter's before moving on to something more deep?
2007-03-04 07:26:14 · 13 answers · asked by nika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trying to be with a person that does'nt trust, (for no reason)
is heartbreakingly hard.
You have to be happy and being untrusted will only depress you.
2007-03-04 07:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would. You would not want to build trust while in the relationship cause that can cause confusion. The person can be trustworthy in certain aspects but not others. For instance, you can trust that if you ask him to do something, he will do it, but you may not be able to trust him if he goes out to party and kisses a random girl. Some guys are like that. Anything you ask them to do, they will do, but the second you are not around they let their hair down. See how good of a friend he is first. See how he treats you and other people as friends. See how he acts when he is around other people. This will let you determine if he is trustworthy and if he is the right person for you. Their is no way to have a relationship without trust. You will always be suspicious of the person, and will never believe anything that they say. Be friends first and build up from there.
2007-03-04 07:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by nicky3162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually better to get to know someone 1st and gain their trust before being in relationship. Be a friend 1st!
2007-03-04 07:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Izzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As young as I am and as wasteful and pathetic the relationships I've been in have been, I suggest it is BEST to gain trust before you engage into a relationship.
It doesn't make sense to just jump into a relationship without getting to know the person. A person can't always be who they claim to be or appear to be. You have to learn their ways, their flaws, likes and dislikes and MOST importantly the intensions they have in the relationship (if any). All in all you have to see the COMPATIBILITY, you two have.
2007-03-04 07:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not technically pointless...i actually asked a question cuz i messed up and lost a lot of trust with this girl. but she was happy with me before, and i really do care about her. we know that theres potential and we're going to work on it, even though she will have a hard time. So basically, if you see that you could go somewhere with it, then go for it, just know its going to be an uphill battle to gain her trust (trust me, im finding out first hand)
2007-03-04 07:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Gibs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on mutual trust and respect. No trust means no relationship.
2007-03-04 07:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never commit to a relationship u can't trust, it will only bring u heartache. just be friends first, get to know them, get to know their intentions too. wrong desires ruin lives. wanting an instant relationship doesn't work. get to know them before things get serious, as if u get to know the real them, u can decide if u want to take the relationship that one step farther.
2007-03-04 07:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,to me before you want to get serious with somebody you must know a little background.Be friends for a while then move on.
2007-03-04 07:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotck15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say if you can't trust, you don't have anything. The bickering and fighting and accusing shoves the other person away until they are so sick of it they finally walk away.
2007-03-04 07:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it couldn't hurt. if there is no trust, it's difficult to stay with someone. become friends and see what their personality is like, then judge if you want something more.
2007-03-04 07:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Yuki Konoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋