Is it wrong to be curious about sex?
2007-03-04 07:17:58 · 30 answers · asked by AfricasTLyric 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's normal to be curious; it's healthy to wait.
2007-03-04 07:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to be curious about anything, God wants us to be curious and intertested in all aspects of life. It's just import as you get more information ( it would be wrong to get experince if you're not married) consider the source and keep things in a biblical perspective. Sex is something to be taken very serously but it's also not the amzaingly completing and fullfilling experince many people say it is. It's a nice addition to a life long commited relationship but it can do a lot more harm then good if you don't have a solid spirtual and emotional fondation in the relationship.
2007-03-04 07:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dane_62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16, but I was your age when I started getting "curious". It's nothing to be ashamed about. But if you ever feel like the temptation is too great, step back and pray for strength. God will never put you in a situation you cannot get out of. And remember, sex is so much more special when it's reserved for married couples, so no matter how curious you are, don't actually go for it. It says in the bible that it's God's will for us to stay until we are married. If you want to know just a special and beautiful sex is to married couples, read the book of Song of Songs,(also known as the Song of Solomen) for some insight. It's pretty short and defintely worth it.
God Bless!
2007-03-04 07:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by scapulagirl1990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not Christian so I can't tell you if your religion deems it as "wrong' or not.
However, you have to look at sex scientifically (science being a sin, I know). Sex is what has keeps the human race going. Curiosity and the desire for sexual intercourse is etched into our DNA so we can procreate without hesitation.
That's why women, when they're on their cycle, become very ... we'll say "friendly". And this is why men are always ready. Different women are on different cycles so men always have to be ready to accommodate women.
I know, it's not very romantic but it's nature. So, in other words, what you're feeling is normal because you are human.
One last thing: don't let anybody, including your religion, make you feel guilty for being human.
2007-03-04 07:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE NOT! Check out
Every Young Woman's Battle: Guarding Your Mind, Heart, and Body in a Sex-Saturated World
by Shannon Ethridge & Stephen Arterburn
2007-03-04 07:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a christian girl it is not wrong to be curious about anything. If you are curious about sex then that is fine. As it is part of Gods way for 14 yr's to be curious about sex. It is how ever wrong if you are curious about sex and go about finding out about sex by doing the act of sex. The ways you should find out about sex is from your parents. Ask them about sex. I know you blush and think that that is terrible suggestion. But think about it, for a sec. How were you born. You parents love each other to have sex and have you. Sex is meant in Christians teachings is to have children, it is a way that socieities grow. There is no shame or sin to ask about sex. The more you questions are answered the more you will learn and understand, so that you will be more informed about sex when the time is right for you to have sex. Hopefully with your husband. This is why you need to be curious about sex now. If the Christians would really be Christians then they would be more upfront with their children about sex and more open. Sex is not a mystery it is one part of life that everyone should learn about at your age. I am not say you should have sex with a boy I am saying learn about it. What happens to your mind, body and soul when you do have sex. If you do have sex it is not hte end of the world and you will not go to hell. But you will have a potential to make your life harder than it is now. So relax go talk to your mother and tell her what you are interested in learning about. Go my child and learn.
2007-03-04 07:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is the greatest treasure that you have and once lost you can not get it back. But it is normal to be curious about sex. Just don't let yourself go that far. Many people believe as I do that your innocence is lost then. But that is easy for me to say because I am a man.
Talk to your mother and whatever you do don't lie to her about your feelings or anything that you may have done. She was a girl to and can help you more anyone on here can.
Good Luck
2007-03-04 08:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Actually, studies show that more educated youth tend to make better decisions concerning sex. Sex is a very natural part of life and at your age, it is so new. Don't feel embarrassed about being curious.
Just because you are intrigued by sex doesn't mean that you are promiscuous or actually having sex.
2007-03-04 07:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will be curious- but please do not fall into the trap that curious means to try it- I am so glad that you asked this question. Just be very sure that God is first in your life, so that when that temptation comes you can remain pure. I know it is hard- my husband and I under our own strength did not want to wait until we were married- but through the strength of our God we did, and it was wonderful. God ordained sex for the couple that he puts together in marriage- I know as a Christian teenager you understand that. I recommend you read a book, my 15 yr old daughter is going through with her small group at church-
"Passion of Purity" by Elisabeth Elliott. God bless you in your journey-
2007-03-04 08:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an older, Atheist man, no it is not wrong to be curious. It would be wrong in your faith and in my belief for you to act on it at 14. You should stick with curiosity for now.
Your faith and my belief would say that lust is wrong for someone of your age. My belief would allow it when you are 18 or 20 but your faith would always condemn it. Similarly, my belief would have no problem with your acting on your lust once you are a young adult while your faith would say to wait for marriage.
One thing I would ask, for the sake of your body and not your soul, if in a few years you decide to go beyond curiosity, make the boy wear protection. Sins can be forgiven but disease and, especially, pregnancies can leave permanent problems.
2007-03-04 07:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Dave P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely a necessary thing to be curious about . and you have no way to stop your curiosity .God gave it to you . Ask a lady relative that you like (who seems to have christian ideals) to discuss stuff . Sometimes mom just can't be the one(no I don't know why) at least at first. and its all so complicated that what you think is stupid to talk about is always very important. I am also sure that boys are already anxious to teach you everything they know but what little they know is not what you need, and as you know already some are cute but boy are they dumb.
2007-03-04 07:40:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋