I know my boyfriend for two months and we did spend a lot of time together. Recently, we have a big fright cause he was online talking to girl too much and i didnt trust him. When confronted him he said that i'm overreacted and too extrem. Last tuesday night i went to his house and try to find out about the status of the relationship but he wouldnt answer the door. I stood in the rain for like an hour hoping he would answer the door and resolve this matter like an adult. When i went home that night, he e-mail me stated that " My patient is limited and i do not want to take any action again you and i'll call the cops next time when you come." After reading the e-mail I was very upset. The very next day i drop off a box at his front door cause i feel that i should return the stuff he gave to me back to him. Do you think he feel hurt when he open that box? do you think he'll give this relationship a try? Am i the one cause the whole relationship ? please help.
2007-03-04 07:14:50 · 13 answers · asked by 2006xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will be happy he got his stuff back.
He seems to hate you now, sorry. He isn't coming back.
2007-03-04 07:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is not ready for a relationship. Maybe you were more serious and he's just not ready for that. You should just move on if he's threatening to call the cops. It sounds like he's done. Once you find the man you're meant to be with, you'll be so thankful you got out of this relationship when you did and you didn't waste too much of your time and energy on a loser. Good luck!
2007-03-04 15:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it might be over.
He seems like a chicken to be threatening to call the cops, as if he's afraid of you.
Let the dweeb go, and find someone who's got a spine and does not two-time.
Life's too short to waste with people like him.
I agree with michele ruthless...how do you recuperate from that after all was said and done. Over and done.
2007-03-04 15:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by PH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that you made a mistake.You showed him that you were in love,but that is not a mistake.My opinion is that you should prove him you are not depending on him and you should give him some time to think...Why?Maybe because he felt suffocated with all your attention and jealousy and this may represent a reason to make him treat you like that.I don t thnk he will come back to you if you don t give him time to decide.
2007-03-04 15:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tymeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is up with all of you women and your low self esteem issues. No! He doesn't love you! You were right to get on him about spending so much time talking to another girl but then again, he was right also...he's not your wife, he was your BF for two lousy months.
Get on with your life and what ever you do, don't go run off and get another BF right away.
2007-03-04 15:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy in a relationship Sometimes talking to wemen online is just that I.E. Not a form of cheating its sometimes a way to laugh or to do when one is just bored now once cops are called I doubt he will comeback sorry
2007-03-04 15:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by ebelmontinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll be hard but u have to give him time to cool down if u dont feel u can trust him then dont be with him......and if it's meant to be he'll come back to u don't force it........i had the same problem for 7 months but the only thing i can do is have patience and let him cool down.
2007-03-04 15:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have given him his stuff back you shouldve kept ALL of it. no i dont think he felt hurt when he opened it he probably laughed. the relationship is over and hes a jerk. why would you wanna be with someone like that anyways.
2007-03-04 15:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL ~ wow, that sounds familiar. Yeahhh, just leave that alone ~ over and done. How do you both recuperate from that, and have a healthy relationship?
2007-03-04 15:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it sounds like he ended things with you, hes not worth your time, there will be someone else, you see, i usually dont talk to other girls, i really dont like to because it makes me feel bad, i AM married, and if my wife ever got jealous or angry at a girl, and asked me to stop talking to that girl, i would never speak to that girl again, i would also know by her being jealous or angry at that girl means she loves me, when i get jealous at her male friends or angry at them, she knows its because i love her and i dont want to share her, i hope this helps
2007-03-04 15:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋