Im 13 almost 14 and I really like my boyfriend.....i never stop thinking about him....were always txting....when were on the phone we talk for 2-5 hours.......he always waits for me to leave school so that he can hug me and kiss me goodbye.....and he rides his bike to my house a lot.....but am i too young to be in love? does he love me? plz help!!
2007-03-04 07:13:41 · 18 answers · asked by malibumandie4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 13 almost 14 and I really like my boyfriend.....i never stop thinking about him....were always txting....when were on the phone we talk for 2-5 hours.......he always waits for me to leave school so that he can hug me and kiss me goodbye.....and he rides his bike to my house a lot.....but am i too young to be in love? does he love me? weve been friends before for 6 years and he isnt my first boyfriend either.....we arent obbsessed, we just like to be together.......
2007-03-04 07:22:14 · update #1
You are never too young to be in love, and don't ever let anyone tell you that you are. Now. Since that's out of the way. You may be in a different stage of love than, say, someone who's 25 or something. But I wouldn't base your decision of "being in love" on just the fact that you always talk or anything. It's a true feeling, and there's no way to really define it. I personally thought I was in love at 14, but looking back, realize I had no idea what love really meant. But hey, maybe you do, and more power to you. As for if he really loves you, there's no way for anyone but him to tell you that. Good luck :)
2007-03-04 07:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say that you're too young, but maybe you're too early, perhaps it depends on how long you guys have been seeing each other. But Maybe you are in love, everyone experiences this at different points in their lives but maybe it could be infatuation, look up the exact definition and you'll see what I mean. If you think thats far off then go ahead an explore the relationship, however don't allow yourself to get so deep that you get into sum trouble you can't get out of
2007-03-04 07:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not to young to be in love, however, be careful, there is nothing better than being with someone who is totally into you... It is really hard to tell how someone else is truly feeling, he may love you or extremely like you but what matters most is if you enjoy spending time together than enjoy it while it lasts and be thankful someone has touched your heart. Sounds like a great time in your life so cherish it, and know that if for some reason it doesn't last this is only the beginning of many loving relationships to come.
2007-03-04 07:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's an old name for what you guys have : Puppy Love.
It's the cutesy, young, carefree love that will most likely not go anywhere.
Love is more that just talking about things for endless hours or hanging out together.
Love is putting someone else before you, and having patience with them when they do something stupid. Love is seeing yourself sticking by that person as long as you're alive.
I think it's safe to say that since you're in your early teens, it isn't so much love, as it is infatuation. You guys like each other, and like to hang out. And that's totally fine, because you're learning more about how to have relationships with the opposite sex.
But don't use the big "L-word" to describe it... you like each other, and that's great.
-Sarah
2007-03-04 07:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by RaginCajun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ive never heard of a guy that can talk for 5 hours he broke my record of 15 minutes
2007-03-04 07:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by kingjoker54 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are way too young. You've got a lot to live, don't tie yourself down to one guy. You have puppy love, enjoy it but don't let it go to far.
2007-03-04 07:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.. sounds kinda obsessive... but then I don't think you're too young to be in love..
2007-03-04 07:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Spring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problably in "lust" which is just craving to be with that person and always thinking and just totally head voer heals for them..love is when if the time came to give your life for that person you would do it in a heart beat. and you usually arent mature enough to fully understand love until your in highschool. but iff you stuck with him for about another year ...i dunno maybe?
2007-03-04 07:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love its infatuation it might feel like love but i think youre too young to know what love really is. = )
2007-03-04 07:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your never to old or to young to find love
2007-03-04 07:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by connorriffic87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋