pls help me frnds.......? i need you sugestion?

Question

i hate my dad for thousand reasons,he is very stobborn and he wont listen to any body,he does unwanted thngs according to his wish. moreover he drinks lot and day by day his health is going worse,i dont talk to him much.he gets cheated by others very easily and he wont realise it.who can help me to get rid of ths problem?should i blv in god,is thr any prayers which can realy help me out to gid of ths problem.somebody help me pls i need your sugestion very badly.thank u

Answer 1

WHO ARE OTHERS YOU HAVE NOT MENTIONED THE RELATION WITH THEM. TRY TO OVERCOME AND ADVISE YOUR FATHER WHEN HE WAS NOT IN DRINKING POSITION.

Answer 2

I do not know your age. Even you may be wrong. Son gets provoked even if the father ask him to study well. If he is a drunkard and having failing health, you may adjust for some more time. You can talk to your father praising him and that in spite of that he is being cheated by others. Polite talk will do a lot. God is always there for good people and there is no need for special prayer. I wish a good future.

Answer 3

Just make him realise tat smthing wrong has happened to ( That person he loves most). Just make him realise bcoz u r nt right thats why ---- I m leaving the house or mother is going to nt come back or sister has been lost or any thing that make him shock. Hey!! u r nt doing these things in reality as it is just for realising him. When he ask u that why r u leaving home tell him tat u r nt right person improve ur self.
If he ask mother why ru going than she also say same.
If u say tat sister or bro or ur mother say that u havebeen lost
than he will find that person after geting that person he\she must say tat they dont want to live in tat house wher u drink
.I think ur understanding what I mean to say is . There is a need to make shoky plann



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U can also bring sm boys to home & sit together & do acting of drinking. He will shurely feel shock & on scolding & asking u say tat u r also this person I m also doing same which i saw frm my childhood .....................
Do acting & make him realise tat we r spoiling ourself bcoz of uuuuuuu................
I hope tat by this way ur father may realise his mistake..
BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
Never break ur heart if ur father scolds u after on rigt time u can tell him truth but nt at same time.
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May GOD bless u & ur family

Answer 4

Yes, God can help you out. Unfortunately you cannot make another person change , but you can lovingly lead them to the information you do know. Asking God for wisdom and understanding will help you considerably, I believe, because God has insight into all things, and He'll share it with you. You have to show your father love, but human love is not enough. Unconditional, Godly love does wonders for many people. Show your dad that you are trying to understand him, and it may soften his heart. ONLY God can change him, though, so for now, just try your best to see the good in him, and tell him what's good about himself. He may live up to your standards eventually, but don't judge him when he fails...we all do.

Answer 5

Pls look into the environment first n try to find out when did he started drinking.If it happened jst few yrs ago then he must have lost faith in himself and may b did not got support from his wife and family n friends thats why he lost his self confidence so try to make sure if its possible that there should b less tension in family and among its members. it wud b better if u describe complete scenerio around u in the question.

I jst had my 2nd son n now I cud tell u being father is a great feeling n when u do not succeed in modern days pressures u tend to loose ur confidence.(Bye the way I never drink, but know it well bcoz we also face this prblm in our sister's family)

If ur the elder one in family u hve to suffer a lot to get the things in the right slots. jst try these:

1) Prepare urself to face struggle in life mentally n physically.Bcoz success will not come to u easily in life

2) Develop a network of good true worthy friends who loves u n ready to understand as well as help u always ,its not easy to found great friends but if u will get 2 or 3 that wud b like gods hand.

3) Set a goal in ur life n carrier very clearly n develop it practically possible by doing lot of research about ur resources , and reach.

4) Make sure u develop a good communication with ur father so he wud feel secure that his son has bcum a support for him.

5) Initially dont crticize his drinking but later on u wud find as he gets his confidence back he wud like to give it up.

6) Try to win his confidence becoz till now others must have enjoyed his generosity in everyway by making him a drunker.
And their "Nautanki" of being good friend of him must b related to get free drinks on the cost of ur father's money.Once he wud trust u they hve to vanish 4ever so b careful bcoz they must create problems 4 u 2.

7) Try to look for a job n continue ur study (pls dont leave it midway) along with it.Once ur finacially strong u wud b able to help ur father as well as other family members also.
And this is commoc who earns most in the family ,has the greater control over family decisions.

We know its bettersaid the done but u hve to do it bcoz u have no other choice.

Answer 6

i believe that God can definately help you in a time like this. just ask Him. also it sounds like you need to talk to someone that has some type of authority if your dad has a drinking problem. you dont need to put yourself in harm's way. i will be praying for you too. God Bless

Answer 7

Dear d reasons r not enough to hate ur father.Dont hate him try to pull him out of the forth comming danger.Did u forgot those loving fingers who tought u to walk?? those loving hands which earns 4 ur living????
Yes there r prayers.
If u really want to pray then pray 4 ur father.
He needs ur love.Talk to him.,explain d things,try to make him understand.Now is ur turn to take care of him.

Answer 8

My dear child, Prayer can be extremely helpful for you. Talk to a school counselor or church clergy person, to help you find ways to deal with your situation. Prayers are with you.

Answer 9

i thik is you aleady beleave in God then pray every night. and even if he does the wrong desisons in life that doesn't mean you have to. just pray and eleive. and if he dies or somthing it is alright because GOd wanted him to then. go on in life and have fun. don't worry things will fall into place.

Answer 10

I am an atheist so i think god has nothing to do with it. you need to talk to him beore sometrhing bad happens. you have to show him what he is doing to himself.