ok well my bf checked out this girl like some time ago and i still cant forget about it.he said it really wasnt anything that i should be mad about or worried about.should i still trust him,should i brake up with him,or what should i do about it!!??
2007-03-04 06:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by evee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least he didn't screw her. All guys check out other women. Get over it or you'll have some pretty jealous relationships.
2007-03-04 06:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's un-natural for guys to be monogamous. It takes lots of effort for us to do it. Simple darwinism says that it's to our advantage to spread our seed around widely. Low cost of reproduction for men.
Women don't understand this because they have a high-cost of reproduction. They assume we are like them. It's in women's best interest to be monogamous, back in caveman days they needed to keep a man around when they were helpless from pregnancy.
So, we naturally look, and can't help it. It's in our nature. Doesn't mean he will act on it.
2007-03-04 16:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Quixotic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for guys to check out other women. Get used to it
2007-03-04 14:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's about trust, if he says don't worry about it, don't.
you know two can play that game. Either you're happy with each other or the game continues.
2007-03-04 14:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by kenmauiphoto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax. "just because you look at the dress doesn't mean your going to buy it" you need to understand that even though he looked he stayed with you. that has to say something about your character and personality. just relax and try to forget it.
2007-03-04 14:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by FunnyGuy216 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-04 14:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by BABY_V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, All guys look
2007-03-04 14:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you mean by checking out - looking at her - no problems , it's normal.
Like you wouldn't check out some tall muscular bronze god
2007-03-04 14:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys check out other gurls for dere bodies.....if he do dat WAY TOO MUCH......maybe he aint da boy 4 u....like me and my boyfriend pee wee......he USED 2 check other women out....but when i told him i how i felt when he do dat.....he swore 2 never do dat again.......talk 2 yo boyfriend...once u told him and he keep on doin it..........den U KNO HE AINT DA BOY 4 u!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 14:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by lil yankee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop being such a perv or you'll leave him, or you could start checking out hot guys so he knows what it's like
2007-03-04 14:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋