well this guy my cousins cousin and somewat related to me
so he told me he liked me and he had these feelings for a while and asked for a chance. im not an easy going type so i kept tellin him it doesnt mean anything. well he said that he wants to get seriouse and really likes my personality. well we spoke online since october and after 4 months he brought it up again. now we hardly ever talk and i asked why he kept it in so long and he said hes shy around me. my friends told me to give it a shot but i also heard hes a player. can i get someones advice. this would be my first and well i dont wanna get hurt. thnxxx
2007-03-04 06:41:48 · 8 answers · asked by alwayzsmilin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it. For one thing, you really don't sound interested. You seem to have an instinct about the guy, and you should never ignore your instincts. Walk away from it. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want to do.
2007-03-04 06:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that goes all out to date and see u.Otherwise they're really not worth taking a chance on.At least not your first relationship. Plus usually what people tell u about someone has some truth to it.Good luck
2007-03-04 14:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I see it, if you give it a try with anyone, you should expect to get burned. But if you don't give it a try, you might regret it later. Figure out which is right for you, and stick with it. But he wouldn't have told you unless (and I'm only guessing here) he actually meant it.
2007-03-04 14:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im'a be real honest with you. so something very different. if he is your first.... and he's been around the block a while. forget it. find someone who you'll be the first with also. 2 first's are better, cause if yall fall in love and make it it would be so so much better for you both in the long run.
good luck
2007-03-04 14:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its sorta weird cause hes somwat related to you, but if you really like him then why not give it a shot. you just have to make shure that hes not dating any1 else. if you do go out with him i hope that you wont get hurt.
goodluck!
2007-03-04 14:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by angie n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2007-03-04 14:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do everything your friends tell you to do. If you feel alright about him, then go for it. If your gut instinct says "stay away!", then do that. If you have no idea how you think you feel, then think about it for a week to figure it out.
2007-03-04 14:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do what you have to do
2007-03-04 14:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋