that my ex n I that broke up 10 yrs ago will soon get back 2gether 1 day. We r the best of friends n we also sleep together I love him with all my heart n that will never change we have 2 kids together n there will always b love there. than what's the problem I am involed with a man who have abuse me so bad mental & physical til I've tried 2 make everything right btween us n make this work but it's got 2 the point where I care about him but I don't love him, I am loving my ex husband, even thought I know that we can never b together again I can't let him go. The man that I with now want help me do anything he talks about me like a dog to family and friends and not helping me with the bills I pay all the bills n take care of the house n kids, we had fight n he told me the hell with you n my kids not the 1st he said that but now I doing something about it I told him that he got's to go. my mother say that I am doing this because I got hopes my x and I to get back 2gether what u think?
2007-03-04 06:20:54 · 2 answers · asked by pecan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ditch the SOB.hes not worthy of your love,and besides the kids need someone to look up to,not a lazy bum like that.just be close to your ex and sit down and talk things out.if you loved hime once and he loved you,then theres no problem that cant be solved.i know times are hard,but 2 people got to sit down and figure the problem out togeather,without holloring back and forth.do you know what brought the divorce on?if so then why dont you and you ex,talk it out,and i bet you anything that both of you can come to a conclusion.i hope this helps,and good luck to you and your ex.try getting back,for the kids sake.god bless.
2007-03-04 06:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with someone who is really caring about your best interests. Maybe you should cut the other guy loose, seeing as how he's nothing but dead weight, anyway. And you can still love your ex, even though you may not get back together right away. Still, it's something to think about.
2007-03-04 14:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋