over a week ago,i split up with my boyfriend.He really hurt me,which is why i had to end it and he is continuing to hurt me after it.All i want to do is forget about him and move on for good.A few years ago,i dated a guy briefly,but we split up because we never saw eachother.We have been best friends ever since we broke up, and my feelings for him had been developing near the end of my last relationship,and i think my bf knew this somehow.It's strange because i know i cared for my bf but with this guy,he makes me feel amazing,and so happy,and like i can do anything.And we see eachother alot more now already,and he's been there for me every step of the way.When we speak,i feel like my heart could burst out of my chest with joy.It feels right don't want to jump into it,but i so badly want to be with him?
2007-03-04 05:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say follow your heart. if this guy makes you happy and feel your greatest without having to change yourself, then go for it. it's not like you went to him to fill this emptiness from your ex-bf right? also ask yourself: "am i liking him to make my ex jealous?". this would be a critical part for you to think about because trying to do something just to make your ex jealous would mean you still cared about your ex. then this new "guy" would just become part of your plan to make your ex feel bad for all he's done to you.
it's seems as though you are happy with the new guy that you are talking about. go for it! don't let love pass you by. what makes us happy go for it so you won't hav to regret it.
good luck!!!
2007-03-04 06:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by SMILES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, rebounds always feel "real". That's why so many people fall into the trap! The fact that you've been broken up for a week and were really hurt by your ex tells me all I need to know. Yes, it's a rebound. Have fun if you want, but don't expect this one to be the real deal.
2007-03-04 13:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy, and you can't go wrong. Your ex should be able to see this; the way I see it, if he doesn't want you to be happy, he has issues. So go ahead and check out the situation with the other guy, and go from there. I think you would have fewer regrets about doing it that way instead of regretting giving up someone who really makes you happy for someone who doesn't.
2007-03-04 13:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about this, whatever you do, u should follow your heart, but i started dating my best friend after following my heart and we've been together now for almost 7 months. so just do whatever you think is best for you. but whatever you do, don't choose both of them.
2007-03-04 13:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by LILI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, just be sure to look before you leap!
2007-03-04 13:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please explain to the people involved of where u stand and where u are moving to. So that they may know what they need to do next. It is always good to keep things clear, as clear as possible. Thanks.
2007-03-04 13:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. It may turn out to be something very good for you :)
2007-03-04 13:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by ☆Kristi☆ Lucy Jane's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyway its def. for real. He loves u, u love him, hes the 1 for u
2007-03-04 13:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Gagan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how u feel
2007-03-04 13:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋