i've been seeing this guy for 7 months and i confronted him because his sister said something on myspace about him being married and having two kids and when i confronted him about it he said that his sister poors salt on him because he hates on her and her boyrfriend so he e-mailed me back and said that to me about his sister and then he said "thanks buddy bcuz that's all you are to me now, ya dig."... what is that supposed to mean? how was i supposed to know that his sister does things like that?
2007-03-04 05:48:50 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you didnt trust him...you are now just his friend. the relationship is over. im sorry. you didnt know, but he thinks that it should be common knowledge.
2007-03-04 05:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your question serious?
OK, if so, here's what he means:
"Since my sister spilled the beans and told you the truth about my lying self, and the fact that I am married and have 2 children, I guess I can only be your friend now."
But he's also trying to do it in such a way that he gets sympathy from *you* (because HE is such a liar.)
No apology, no honesty, just a little dig about how now he can't be your "guy" anymore.
You should THANK his sister for letting you know the truth, and leave HIM alone....he has a family.
2007-03-04 13:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for the B.S, dude is most likely married and now is trying to run some bull on you. if you went to him and asked him what was going on and he wasn't really guilty, he could have answered your question and moved on. Instead he wants to make it seem that you were wrong for asking when you had every right to ask. Move on and forget his lying, cheating a**.
2007-03-04 13:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a cover story to me and now he wants you to beg for him back. He is married with kids. He's just trying to make you feel guilty for confronting him, you had EVERY right to. Kick him to the curb....
2007-03-04 13:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his mother and get the truth.If he is married tell him what a dirtbag he is and tell him you arent even buddies now.If his sister lied, tell him you didnt know that is why you asked him instead of assuming he was hiding something.It sounds like he got caught with his pants down though ,or else he wouldnt be mad at you.
2007-03-04 13:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must not be "seeing" this guy very seriously if you wouldnt even be able to tell after 7 months if he actually was married or a dad. take what he said at face value and move on.
2007-03-04 13:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Vettepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just got busted big time and tryin to make u feel bad by you not trustin him... Was this a real relationship or were you just in love with a text on your screen? if it's real why dont you go an see for yourself? and if he was just a text ... well then you need to go out in the real world and find a real man and not an online text....
GoodLuck
2007-03-04 13:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"thanks buddy bcuz that's all you are to me now, ya dig." means that all you are to him is a buddy (he just dumped you) and if u didnt know about all those arguments between him and his sis then it wasnt your fault don't talk to him no more he aint worth it obviously he is hiding something. you werent supposed to know that his sis does things like that and he blew it out of proportion so he aint worth it. don't go chasing him all around i made that mistake and i wasted alot of time on a girl that dumped me
2007-03-04 13:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe that was his way of telling you he dont want to be with you anymore, thats what it sounds like to me.
2007-03-04 13:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by TOOTS0822 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all u are now is JUST a friend and do u understand like the saying comprende...sounds like a jerk!
2007-03-04 13:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋