2007-03-04 05:42:21 · 18 answers · asked by ANDREW T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty, be honest that you feel uncomfortable with her clothing. If she isn't willing to cover up a bit more then I say she isn't worth it. Tell her you love her body but she doesn't need to show it off so much. Maybe she is insecure about her body so she feels she has to show it off to get the reassuring attention.
2007-03-04 05:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her why it is not a good thing, and she will probably get mad or hurt and ask you "why did you pick me then?" She already knows its because of her looks and the way she dressed attracted you to her in the first place.Chances are in most cases she wont change the way she dresses for you or anyone else, so you either have to accept the way she dresses or find another gal who dresses more to your liking.
2007-03-04 13:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned that the best way to handle this problem is to take her to Victoria's Secret (yes, really), look over what's there, pick out things to your mutual liking, and then ask her to wear them around you and no one else. Both of you will be happier for it because you'll become more intimate as a couple, and it should curb her everyday wear of revealing clothes.
Better yet: ask her to wear them under her regular clothes, then strip down to them when you're both home. Trust me, both of you will love it.
2007-03-04 13:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a risky thing to do. Perhaps you could try the jealous thing by saying you don't want other guys to see so much of her body as it makes you mad because you like/love (you choose) her so much. It may work It may not but any other way is risky . I hope it works for you if you try that approach. good luck.
2007-03-04 13:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by curiously me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no nice way in telling a girl she dresses too revealing. However, what you CAN do is hint at it. ie: if you are sitting outside at a football game, say "Aren't you freezing? You're barely covered up!" Laugh, and offer her your coat.
2007-03-04 13:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way. You could try by telling her that baring all is not as sexy as wondering what is there. Go with her to the store, and show her some things that you would like her to wear. Maybe that will let her no that you aren't impressed with her trashy look.
2007-03-04 13:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about what your going to say before you say it.When you do say it,say it nicely.Don't be or look angry,it will help to make things worse.It may or may not do any good,but you do have to tell her how you feel.She may still get mad,it could go either way.Don't worry about that.At lease you will have gotten it out in the open.
2007-03-04 13:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets put it this way. Did she dress this way when you met her and started dating her? If she did, then you have no right to tell her how to dress. If she started to dress this way after you started dating, maybe she is doing for you. You need to just simply ask her.
2007-03-04 13:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by purple_lily76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a toughie. You could one, lower the thermostat, two, tell someone to tell her for you, like a boss or a teacher, or three, buy her some unrevealing clothes, tell her that she looks sexy in sweater, and live like that.
2007-03-04 13:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by | 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say a thing, because this is one of the things that caught your eye. Enjoy it, be glad that she has the body to do it. Be glad that she has the self esteem to do it. Just be glad, find something else to worry about.
2007-03-04 13:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋