ok how do i ask my crush out im really shy and so is he what do i do.........?
2007-03-04 05:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well assuming he is also attracted to you... which should not be difficult to ascertain (males are generally not the most subtle of creatures) then you will either have to wait for him to make a move or you will have to ask him out yourself.
If you decide to wait (not a move I would advocate) simply make yourself available to him should he want to speak with you. This would include not always being in a crowd or a crowded place, and etc. If he is shy then other people will scare him off, as will the fear of a public humiliation.
If you decide to follow the maxim "Fortune favors the bold", then you will have to ask him out yourself. However this has to be approached delicatly because he is really shy he might get frightened and bolt. Back to that quite place, preferably without other people around. Talk to him for awhile (10 or 15 minutes at least) and if that goes well and he starts to respond then simply tell him you like him and ask him what he thinks about that. If you are to bold he will scare off, and if you are subtle it's very likely he will miss it or not respond to it. Be honest and take a chance.
2007-03-04 05:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by haveahellofaniceday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im not much of a dating expert but ill try. when you see him all alone at the lunch tables or anywhere sit by him and talk about ur likes and dislikes and when its the right time ask if you want to "have some fun together"
2007-03-04 13:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by eeyore_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he seem 2 like u? If so just hang around him. U should never ask a guy out. Let him come 2 u. If he doesn't seem 2 like u just hang out with their clique.
2007-03-04 13:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is ask him, "Uhuhu, hey baby, wanna go out sometime?", (or something a little more toned down then that. Another option is to get your friend to talk to him and ask if he likes you. Also, you could try asking him out on AIM.
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2007-03-04 13:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Meow Ran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one day at school have some books in your hand and run agaist him on purpose and say im sorry and i know he is going to help you pick up your books, and when yall start talking just say (if you dont have plans Friday night maybe we can hook u and give him your number)..
2007-03-04 13:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by sexyandfly662 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't even think that your going to ask him out on a date.. just say talk for a little and hang out and say for example "you wanna go get a pizza friday" or something and things will work out..
2007-03-04 13:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♦Its•Possible•But•Not•Logical♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and start a conversation and then ask him the worst he can do is turn u down. if he yells out hell no then he isn't the man for u u deserve better much better
2007-03-04 13:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by fashgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and just approach him. What is the worst that could happen? Good luck.
2007-03-04 13:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Dana Katherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! What do you have to lose? Either you ask and know the answer, or live never knowing what could have been....
2007-03-04 13:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by in the know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe write him a note or call him,you can ask one of your friends to tell him,and you can even tell him in person....you should be fine.
2007-03-04 13:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋