Ok. I am thirteen years old and I have never made out with anyone and where I live it's a big thing. I want to so bad, but I wont because I dont want to be bad at it. My last boyfriend kept calling me a prude and saying "there's a first for everything" but I still am just soo worried I will be bad at it and make myself look like an idiot. I need some advice.
2007-03-04 05:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No worries -- he will be waaaay worse at it than you. In general, guys don't figure out how to kiss until they're like in their 20s. Oh, and don't put pressure on yourself (or let anyone else) -- there's plenty of time for you.
2007-03-04 05:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bad in kissing someone ( that's what people mean by making out ) . It is up to you when you do this you may feel that you dont want to for a while but you must stick to how you feel not what people think. 13 is still young i didn't have a boyfriend till i was 14 and then i only had 3 then i got my 4th when i was 15 and i married him when i was 19 we are still together now and i am 32. So its OK take your time and very good luck.
2007-03-04 13:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jinxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are thirteen and worried about this? You have never made out? I doubt it is as much of a thing near you as you think. People talk big but the reality is it is just talk. You do want to "make out" is understandable, the hormones are flowing and they are powerful. There are far more people like you who feel this way than you realize and you need to find them. It depends a great deal what you mean by "making out". If you mean full scale sexual encounter then you should back off, at thirteen you are not ready for the enormous change that comes with too much, too early. But some simple contact, kisses, not pecks on the cheek, are probably ok for now. But be strong and wait for more maturity and judgment. You could be making a horrible mistake with lasting damage to you and the other person.
2007-03-04 13:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You say you want to make out, really bad. Yet your scared of benign bad at this. Girl maybe you did not like your last boyfriend enough to make out. He was putting a lot of pressure own you.When you really like a guy you will find out that you will not be afraid, maybe a little unsure, about it. Have you considered what might happen if you do make out, and neither of you use protection. Your thirteen and very young, you need to live life a little longer before you do this. Just because every one else is making out, does not mean you have to. If every one jumped off the school building and landed head first are you going to jump also. You need to talk with your parents on this matter, our your school counselor.
2007-03-04 13:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure your breath is fresh beforehand, nobody wants to make out with someone with stinky breath--lure him in, make him want to kiss you. Start slow, deep breaths, soft kisses at first--NO TONGUE---yet ;) Suck on his bottom lip, tease him a little bit. Then after you've kissed a while, gently slip a little bit of tongue in. No tongue-raping his throat! Play with his tongue a little, it's like dancing--go with the flow, follow his lead or make your own steps. Take it easy, go slow, don't forget to breathe through your nose and remember every guy likes something a little different, figure out what he(and you!) like(s) and you'll be fine. Good luck and enjoy!
2007-03-04 13:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. you're thirteen. you don't have to be kissing anyone yet just because everyone else is. but if you truly want to, find someone you think won't judge you if you are bad at it. and trust me, most people are pretty good kissers, even when they just start out. go with the flow, and follow your instincts. who knows? maybe the guys will be lining up just to give you a smooch.
2007-03-04 13:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by fab expert101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait three years, find someone else who has never made out with anyone (trust me, they're are tons!), and then when you decide you want to try it neither one of you can say the other is bad at it because neither of you had tried it before! Best of luck!
2007-03-04 13:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by mhlsister 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen when talk about like someone and make out ,don't worry
when you find somebody that you really like and you fell he likes you too things happen naturally,anyways you are not in a make out contest.when you fell comfortable with somebody everything will be OK.
2007-03-04 13:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda hard to mess up when makin out wid someone jus tell her ur ex bf u wanna make out wid him lol and i doubt he'll turn u down and dnt wry bout it b/c we all make mistakes and ur bf or ex can jus help u through the 'process' lol gud luck
2007-03-04 13:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummmm. dont rush it. ure only 13 when its time. it will happen. and you'll just have to trust you wont be bad. when its truly time you will just know what to do!!!
2007-03-04 13:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by fzhzfghh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋