My dad works in the military so he meets a lot of new people when he travels everywhere. My dad met a woman named Dina while they were in Thule. Whenever Dina comes over, my step-mom becomes very irritated all of a sudden and she treats my siblings and I like garbage. My dad would never leave my step-mom at all and he doesn't think about Dina like that at all! (At least I don't think so). Whenever Dina leaves, my step-mom is back to normal within five minutes. She also seems very irritated and angry whenever Dina and I talk about "girly" things or school. Dina is very interested in my career option and so she asks me about it a lot. My step-mom doesn't seem to like that. Do you think that she's just jealous or scared that Dina might "take away" the "mother figure" from my step-mom?
2007-03-04 05:09:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think this is a subject for your step mom and Dad. You could probably mention to your dad that you think your step mom is threatened by Dina's presence and it concerns you because you like her(your step mom) and don't want her hurt but, then don't say anything else.
2007-03-04 05:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your step-mother is jealous. I mean, she's not even your real mother. So if I were you, I wouldn't give a rat's tail about my step-mother being mad. I could see if she was you biological mother, but she's not. Let her be jealous all she wants, that would only make me spend more time with Dina.
2007-03-04 15:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chrishonda Alston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your step-mom is jealous and if i was her i wouldn't allow her to come over. Its disrepectful of your dad to have this woman over to the house. I can understand him meeting people through his job but he doesn't have to bring them home to his family. Its making your step-mom feel as if she's not important and that this other lady might be a better influence for his kids instead of the step-mom. Your step-mom should tell your dad that she doesn't like it and to keep her out their house. I'm pretty sure your father notices her attitude change especially if you notice. With that said, he doesn't care because if he did he would respect the fact that she's uncomfortable and not invite her over. Good Luck Kid!
2007-03-04 13:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe its both. Maybe also, Your step-mom is afraid she will steal your dad from her and you guys too. It sounds like she really loves you guys and she doesnt want to lose you to some person her hubby met and became good friends with.
2007-03-04 13:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. and threatened. try talking to her.
2007-03-08 12:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋