ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved would you be interested, say a few months later, in seeing if he has changed and that he wants the same things in a relationship you do? if you obviously knew that the guy hasn't changed and he's still the same person he was when you broke up with him then i would say don't even bother. but if you had no idea how the guy you love has changed, would you be interested in giving him a chance to prove to you that he has changed and to see if the relationship would be better the next time? I'm asking because my girlfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and I've changed a lot of things for myself since then, and I'm just wondering if she is even going to give me the chance to show her all of the changes that I've made. I would really appreciate your input.
2007-03-04 05:05:43 · 7 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh if i was her and still single..and u convinced me to give u another chance to prove that u have changed i would....gud luck and hope she says yes
2007-03-04 05:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too little too late. When you have a person in your life if you dont do right by them the first time around there may not be a second chance. I wouldnt go back after a few months tho. If I was in love with him than it would be even harder because I had to let him go then months later im taking another shot and opening wounds. I do believe that true love always prevailstho so if you and her are meant to be than she'll be back.
2007-03-04 13:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by virgofortune 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't moved on and started dating someone else, I say contact her. If I still cared about the guy I'd give him a chance to prove it (unless he had cheated the first time). If she's still free call her up and see what happens! Definitely worth a shot! Good luck!
2007-03-04 13:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would wonder is, "Has he really changed?"
Then I would wonder "Why has he changed?"
And then if the answer was "for you [me]" then I would not be at all interested, knowing how likely that was to not last, and also feeling that he was of weak character believeing it's appropriate to try to change onesself to please another person [including me].
Sorry. If you have changed for the better, let another girl be the beneficiary, not a person who has rejected you.
2007-03-04 13:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a ladie, but if you made the changes that you made for her, then your probably gonna be wasting your time. if you made those changes for you, then mabey you got a shot. if someone loves you for who you are, they wouldnt expect changes from you. it also depends on what the changes were. i recently asked my gf to stop drinking. thats the only thing that really sucks about our relationship and she has said that she wont. so basicly its over between us. i guess its not fair to ask someone to change, but she knows that she drinks too much but wont make the change. good luck.
2007-03-04 13:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a second chance to at least talk things out. Do things differently than you would have done before take romantic jestures and if it works out she'll take you back.
2007-03-04 13:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud,
but if SHE broke it off,
it means she wasn't interested anymore.
The best thing you can do is look for someone else.
You can't keep waiting for something that isn't going to happen.
2007-03-04 13:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋