me and my ex have broke up over 20 times. i do this hoping he will change and to let him know i wont put up with his maltreatment. but of course he didnt change. well im finished this time and i dont want to see him anymore and i want to move on. i really and truely dont want him to come back and try and talk me into getting back together. i just dont even want to hear his voice. so do you think he will try this again. he said he agrees that we should split up because im always fussing at him. but he fails to realize the reason why. i hope he doesnt then i can move on in peace. so what are the odds of this lowlife returning again at my door to mentally abuse me somemore. hes narcissistic and i cant live like that. i just dont want to ever see him again. so on a scale of 1-10 what are the chances. of him contacting me. based on what i told you. plz no smart remarks. ty.
2007-03-04 05:03:58 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you are doing the right thing. Hey just do what you want and as I see you are doing a good job.
Julie C
2007-03-04 05:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by julie c~actress and WWE&TNA_FAN! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but it sounds like you have been playing games with this guy. You can't change people, they are who they are. If you really don't want to see him again move on. My now husband and I broke up several times before we decided to settle down with each other. We are very happy but only because I never tried to change him. Love isn't all the games. Love is accepting the person for who they are and who they want to become. If you had spent more time trying to get to know the real person instead of trying to constantly change him. you may have had a better relationship. If he is smart he will stay away and try to find some one more supportive.
2007-03-04 05:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm, lets see, what are the chances that he will try to come back to you again?? pretty much, given the fact you two broke up over 20 times only.
The next time he shows up at your door, keep him there and never let in the house.
2007-03-04 05:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your not really over him, especially if you are asking if he will come back. Been There, I said the same things, but after I left, he realized what he was missing and things are great now 6 years later. It took leaving him for him to realize, you will be able to tell if it is for real, If you only have to leave once! If it is repeated, it won't change. But he will definitely be back! Watch yourself!
2007-03-04 05:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Curious77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say about a 9. He is going to come back again. 20 times sounds like a routine. You have to be strong no matter what he does or says. If you don't want him back, don't let him come back. You two don't fit together. Start dating someone else.
2007-03-04 05:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miss G. H. Etto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the goal is to never see him again than change your address and you never will. It might be an inconvenience but the way I see it, you can put a price on peace of mind..Good Luck!
2007-03-04 05:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you've broken up & took him back so many times you can't really expect him to realise you mean it this time so of course he'll be back, it's almost a tradition with the two of you.
You just have to tell him you 100% mean it this time & stick to it sooner or later he will realise you really mean it.
2007-03-04 05:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well giving him 20 chances, I am sure that the chances are good that he will try to get back you because I don't think that you ever told him exactly why and men aren't mind readers, yes hun they pretend to be but in reality you have be blunt with them, if you don't want him in your life then who cares if he contacts you, tell him I am finished with this relationship and I would rather not talk to you anymore.
2007-03-04 05:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's coming back if he hasnt already!!! what do you expect after having broken up 20times and gotten back together 20 times. you lead him on and he feeds off you and you got yourself into an endless process and you enjoy it. no woman in her right mind will allow this to constantly happen, why stop now. you like this sort of relationship.
2007-03-04 05:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by justasmile79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow that gave me a headache. that wasn't a smart remark....it was stupid fast
2007-03-04 05:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋