There is this girl I really like, and have liked for a few months now. I recently heard that she likes me. But the problem is, I am a very shy, nervous kind of guy. I have been alone with her once, but I didn't know what to say to her. I want to ask her out, but I am nervous. I have yet to bring myself to ask anyone out to a dance. My friends had to do it for me, and that never turns out well. I have seen this girl with other boyfriends, and she seemed to be having a great time with them. When I saw her with one of them, i thought to myself that compared to that, i didn't have a chance. But when one of them said that he loved her, she freaked out and dumped him. How can I do well and what can I do to keep her interested?
2007-03-04 05:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, get over ur fear of rejection.we all get rejected sometimes and if you don't take chances, you can't be accepted either.second, if you don't have belief in yourself, why should others?u need to b more confident and if you can't, fake it till you make it.third,if you send your friends to talk to the girl, u can just forget about her.take a deep breath,put on ur most attactive smile and go talk to her.you have nothing to lose and if you don't talk 2 her, you'll never know what answer she'll give
2007-03-04 05:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know what to do to keep her interested is get to know her so you know what she truly likes. Be genuine and sincere with her. Maybe the other guy was just trying to "get some" and said he loved her and that's why she freaked out.. most girls can see right through that. If you truly like her, see will see that too. Get to know her and just ask her out!!! Just do it!! You have NOTHING to lose and EVERYTHING YOU WANT to gain! Don't sit back and wonder "what if?" for the rest of your life. Even if she says "no" you at least know you tried and you won't wonder for the rest of your life what could have been. I wish you the best!
2007-03-04 13:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way if you're nervous is to write a note, send an email, or send a text message.
2007-03-04 13:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and say: I would like for you to go out with me", make it casual and not as though you are seeking something serious right off. Don't be brusque but not stuttering either. Remember she is not much different than you in age or other circumstance and is probably as nervous as you. And recall the saying: "Faint heart fair neer won fair lady".. Good Luck Come back and tell us how you did. I think you will be very fortunate.
2007-03-04 13:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
just tell the girl that you like her but dont say a lot even though it sounds like you do a lot just say that you want to get to know her better and she is specal to you and then ask her out
2007-03-04 13:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard yes, but in reality the only is YOU to step up to HER, you will be very very happy in the end.
2007-03-04 13:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is write her a small letter and hand it to her personally. let her read is when she wants and she will really appreciate it
even if you dont give me the best answer please try what i told you lol
seriously
2007-03-04 13:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u and her friends at all ? it helps to become friends and then ask her out because then she can trust u.
2007-03-04 13:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ethan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her ur DICK!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 13:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by moreira0110 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋