how to have good sex?

Answer 1

is there such thing as "bad sex" for men? I thought any sex was good for men. If your talking about "good" for both parties, you most likely will have to find that out for yourself. Each woman is different...what one likes might be a turn-off for the next woman. If intercourse with you can last more than 30 seconds, I'd say your on the right track. Read some books, talk to women, explore women's message forums about sex and see what they are saying. That's the key-listen to women, not men.

I'd say the worst sex is with a guy that is uptight (don't touch me here, don't touch me there, etc..) Let the woman suggest things, get a cosmo magazine and read it with her, giving feedback about cetain activities.

Some women may be apprehensive to divulge their fantasies because of judgement. So to that I say, discuss it terms of "I think it would be interesting to...." instead of saying you "wish she would_____"That way she knows what you want and she can think about and maybe surprise you.

Answer 2

Be comfortable with your body and don't be afraid to explore the body of your partner. Discuss what it is you both like (gentle touch, rough sex, hair pulling, ETC). Don't be afraid to get a little freaky.

Answer 3

Don't have sex with everyone in the world. :D

Answer 4

First, make sure you do it with the right person.
Second, everything will happen just the way you want it.

Last, good luck!

Answer 5

do it the pace u want it, take control, and dont forgot, to the way u want,

Answer 6

find a good lover

Answer 7

just let yourself go and don't be embarrassed

Answer 8

pay top dollar