2007-03-04 04:08:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwwww...there is not one thing wrong with being good. Being good is what we should strive to be as women. Be grateful that you are a nice girl. Niceness can be described as congeniality, agreeableness, a relaxed, low-maintenance attitude. Good girls know what acts of kindness truly are.
Don't be discouraged. Keep true to yourself. I know that it may seem like "the bad" girls have all the fun and maybe that your life is dull in comparision, but the fun they are having is shortlived. By being a good girl, you will hold on to your self respect and the respect of your friends.
Do you know that over 70% of men said that they knew that their future bride was a “nice girl” the minute they met?
You can't fake that....you are either nice or you aren't.
It is who you are, don't compromise your values, it is not worth it. You can still keep your friends and be good, maybe it will help some of your friends see that they can choose the good path also. Seek out the good friends with the same type values and who maybe don't have the gumption to stick up for their beliefs on their own....band together and you guys will be stronger and it will be easier to resist the pressure to go along with everyone else.
As far as guys and sex, do not give in to the "if you love me you will do it" line.....Because if you do it, they will have NO respect for you at all.
Most "nice" young men truly look to the girls for their direction in how far things should go sexually. If you set your boundaries, a nice young man will gladly stay within those boundaries. If he has no boundaries, he isn't sure how far to go either.
Don't ever think that doing something bad will be okay as long as no one finds out. Because those things always come out...always. Eventually. Trust me, it is embarassing.
So....stay true to your self and ask yourself, "If I do this, will it bother me when I think about it next month? next year? if my parents found out? if my grandparents found out?"
It's the best thing in the world to be good. Hold on to that goodness, cherish it....if you lose your grasp on it...you can't get it back.
2007-03-04 05:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by suzi 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Nothing but it feels a lot more good being bad.
2007-03-04 04:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then again, whats so good about being bad? If my son was choosing a girlfriend, and it was up to me, I would have him choose the good one. Less hasles, no major bad habits, and usually in a good frame of mind. If you are a good girl, cheers to you, and hope you remain good, at least till you learn some life skills.
2007-03-04 04:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bad about being good, as long as you treat your fellow man with respect a dignity then don't worry about what others may think of you.
2007-03-04 04:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
being good is not a bad thing at all u need to be good to do things in your life e.g. if you wanted a job people are going to like you so you gonna get it but if your bad your not going to get far in life
2007-03-04 04:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by xlifesoredx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world would be a better (and safer) place if everyone tried to be `good`. But understand and remember that old saying `The road to Hell is paved with good intentions`!
Stalin destroyed Russia, because he `tried to do good` by making everyone equal, and robbing the rich to distribute it equally to the poor.
2007-03-04 04:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by B0uncingMoonman@aol.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly enough many people nowadays see being good as being weak.Cynical people think they're smarter and won't get hurt but their bitterness only hurt them.A Greek philosopher said "cynical people hate every thing and everybody but above all they hate themselves".Stick up with your values,it's the only way for you to feel good about yourself.
2007-03-04 04:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think girls are crazy. i know the times i am being myself and quite gentle most girls dont really care. but when im angry or drunk or being a bastard they're really into it.
girls seem to define that being good is bad. girls want a bad guy and then once they got him want to soften him and make him nice. and if they cant do that then they just lie to themselves that they have.
anyway. its all lies. just moments. when you meet someone and they seem exceiting its just a moment where they are giving off a vibe. they wont be that way tomorrow. it comes and goes.
stupid mating games.
2007-03-04 04:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by splinter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing. all the "bad" people that give you crap about being "good" are gonna wish they were as "good" as you later in life, when YOU have a life and THEY dont.
2007-03-04 04:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by 11.7.06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing other than the nice people seem to always finish last in life.
2007-03-04 04:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋