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i made my bf who i really adore wait two years b4 having sex with me and since i let him he started doing it everytime he sees me and if we ddnt have it he just starts kissing and making out and i never can let him stop cuz he does it in a very great and amazing way(romantic)
everytime i feel like it is the first time cuz he is so soft and he treats me like a queen
i really love him
it is just he talked to me and he wanted to try to have unprotected sex
and he told me the it is the wish of his dreams and i dont want to make him sad or mad of me do u think i should do it and what r the problems i might get if i do it
f u think i shouldnt is there any other way to please him???
2007-03-04 03:42:33 · 22 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your instincts are correct. Do NOT have unprotected sex if you value your relationship the way it is. Are you ready for motherhood?
Getting pregnant is always a risk of sex, even protected sex. Unprotected sex is Russian roulette.
2007-03-04 03:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all always have protected sex if your not married because it saves you from things you dont want at this age like std or unwanted pregnecy. You need to tell him how you feel, because unprotected sex is dangerious. If you think about it protected sex and unprotected sex is the same except with one you come out without being harmed. Also dont let him push you into things that you dont want like stds or pregnecies. You should really talk to him about this and tell him how you feel because if you dont he will take advantage of you. If he truly loves you he will understand and he will wait but if he doesnt understand then he doesnt truly love you and if thats the case you need to dump him. Sometimes the truth hurts but you come out of it as a better person. Well i hope i have helped and good luck with your situation! Hopefully you will make the right choice and use protection.
2007-03-04 03:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the circumstances of your life you might be prepared to get a family, having a baby and juggling with diapers and baby bottles, because that is what sex originally was meant to.
"Unprotected" sex is for pregnancy - you ought to know this by now. Mankind has not yet disappeared from this Earth because boy-friends have in them such a hammering need for sex - in some of them it may be so strong as to make them scream and even do immoral or illegal things!
But there may be practical aspects of your life and age which might not yet warrant getting a baby. But sex, love, romance do not always seem to be so rational as we very much would love them to be. If you can't please each other in other ways you still have four options: family (baby), artifice, abstinence, distance. Good luck!
2007-03-04 04:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see what can happen if you have unprotected sex. Ah gee i dont know could you get any std like aides Nah that not going to happen Ahhhhh could you get pregnant Naaaaah he wouldnt do that to you would he dont be stupid unless your married keep in covered even if you are on the pill you can still catch STD such as aides you dont know if really are the only person he has been with let alone with even now You have unprotected sex with someone now a days you are also having unprotected sex with everyone they have been with
2007-03-04 03:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by lynx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your not going to have unprotected sex and that's that. Tell him to go to the store and get some Trojan Ultra Sensitive condoms. It's about as close as you can get next to doing the real thing. I wouldn't do something you don't really want to do just to make someone happy. Things could happen that can't be turned back, explain that to him, and if he rally cares he'll understand.
2007-03-04 03:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your safety is what matters here.
First of all, Unprotected sex has HIGH risks to make you pregnant. Even if you think you are ready, you actually arent.
You must have unprotected sex, only with your hubby. Your hubby is gonna be the one to make you pregnant.
Who knows what your boyfriend would do to you.
Having unprotected sex is indeed a risky thing.
Think four times before you do it.
2007-03-04 03:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...no...no...DON'T even try and have unprotected sex. You two are taking the risk of you getting yourself pregnant. Not good!
So wait until your older to do that stuff, and you are ready to be a mom. Tell him that you two should do it when your older and ready to become parents.
Right now is not the best time! Keep it protected and safe...thats all im gonna tell you.
You sound young tho. Idk if you gone through a health class....but im gonna tell you, unprotected sex isn't safe.
2007-03-04 03:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not have unprotected sex until you are married.
Babies pop up real easy and sure do put a damper on the romance.
You could also end up with a STD. Many people have them and don't even know they do.
2007-03-04 03:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on the pill, you still need protection and it will satisfy him. if thats not an option, tell him to wait or he gets nothing. dont let him walk all over you, he should be happy you let him have it as it is. if he starts making demands, thats when you let him know whats up
2007-03-04 03:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nooka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answer first, and if the answering makes me think of or makes my day, then i'm going to celebrity. i be attentive to...this is choosy of me, sorry. o.o yet this way I finally end up pointing my followers and contacts to the *sturdy stuff* you be attentive to? ^__^ Or a minimum of i attempt to. yet have a celebrity besides basically for being affected person and understanding. ^_^
2016-10-17 06:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by corbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋