I just do not understand and the whole catching a break thing from beauties its all the time. Sorry guys I do not how to shut it off. Look on myspace and see for yourself. My ID on there is Wild_Geek. Check it out and see what you think?
2007-03-04 03:29:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have felt like at times that one day a woman who is a beauty and maybe a geek too will trap me and not allow me to progress in my love life without her. At times I have thought about that. How she will stop me from running and just accept all types of women and not just what I see myself with. I can not be with a woman that is a formal cheerleader or popular girl because I have always thought that they belong with the football players and other athletes and popular guys. I have always been unpopular all through out my school years. Always.....and it is like that show for example where the movie star woman would be dating an average unpopular never have been type of man. I look at stuff like that as example. I do not have low self esteem. I just have never been interesting enough and have always thought, that geeks,nerds, and unpopular people stick together. I will not change my thinking. My standards are a safe zone and I am quite content with it.
2007-03-04 07:27:51 · update #1
Maybe it's because that is what you feel more comfortable with, there is nothing wrong with your personal preferences. My boyfriend likes stockier women and brunettes but it doesn't mean he wont turn his head if a beautiful thinner woman walks by. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
You know I've noticed lately that men tend to look for women that are more like their mothers or significant women in their lives.
2007-03-04 03:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a psychological thing. And an animal thing.
Peoples personalities always are the same, no matter how much we think they've changed, they still produce the same vibes that get the same type of people.
For example, me. I'm very childish and every girl i've gotten has been childish. Not a single one has been mature or one of those types that I want so dearly that will give me advice that'll shatter my whole aspect of thinking.
As you go on in life, those are the types you will always see.
2007-03-04 11:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Saad S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice to know that you feel you're too good for other people. My bf has some nerdy habits (playing world of warcraft) but he is one of the most popular people I know and he is so much fun. And he's hot :D
p.s. why can't an overweight or nerdy woman be beautiful?????
2007-03-04 11:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i's the way you think and the way that you behave
it's what they call karma
no matter how good looking a girl is she won't be enough if you keep being the way you are, she'll be too skinny or too tall or too short or too fat etc.
be more realistic and sensitive , then you will find the lady who will take good care of you and you will see her the most beautiful woman in the world.
keep in mind nobody's perfect including yourself .
2007-03-04 11:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweet tooth 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably only see yourself with these people because you don't take a chance on the beauties.
2007-03-04 11:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wut is so bad about that?? it is their personality that counts. that is my opinion. but as to ur question i think u might have low self esteem u need to think good thoughts. and maybe if that is all u want a jerk that is pretty then that is what u'll get. but i'm not saying all super skinny pretty chix are jerks or anything i am just saying it sounds like ur looking for all the wrong things!
2007-03-04 11:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by ?Huh? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first your mindset is being a geek as we can see from your name. The first thing you need to do is change that name and don't accept anything less than what you desire.
2007-03-04 11:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are a little bit insecure and you have low self-esteem and that might be by you set your priorities low.
2007-03-04 11:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't say that, if you get more active you will lose weight and with a smaller body more attractive.
2007-03-04 11:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to look deeply and see the beauty inside someone; it doesn't matter what's on the outside. actually I consider geeky women extremely attractive!!!!
2007-03-04 11:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋