My ex dumped me after 2yrs of going out in the relationship.His parents separated.Mom moved to Palestine but she is Brazilian to raise the 2 girls Palestine. Dad is now in BC. I have met dad and the 2 brothers and they liked me. My ex and I where much inlove he was going to move to Hamilton, Ontario Canada he was from North York, Ontario Canada.He was looking for a house with a inlaw suite for himself so mom and sister that is 12yrs old for privacy that He can have.He went to Palestine for holidays and to come back with mom and 12yr old sister. He felt then he should tell his mom of us.Well she did not take the news well she was in shock well. A week later when they where back in Canada He broke up with me said he had problems did not know how long it will take to deal with them.I said i am here for u to help you. I was his friend but i was lying to myself i can't be friends with someone i was intimate with. A few months later i found out that his mom wants him to be with a Palestine
2007-03-04 03:20:47 · 3 answers · asked by shyromaniticgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex had not know that this was coming to him or Myself. We where both inlove. He was the only person that treated me like i was on a pedal stool. He is having a rough time as much as i am right now. Do you think he will ever come back to me and realize he choose the wrong person to be with. Please help!! I am so much inlove with him and I can't move on.
2007-03-04 03:24:39 · update #1
I told him that I can no longer be friends and told him not to contact me in anyway. I was lying to myself. But i am inlove with him and can't move on. I want to call or drive to see him. It is so hard do you think he will regret what he done and come back to me. I told him that his mother won't be here for ever but he will. I even had someone write a letter to the mom in Arabic to let her know about the son. How much he has done for the family. Let him be happy with who ever he chooses to be in life. I don't know if she got the letter or if my ex got it and read it himself. His friend calls me all the time to check up on me and to see if i am ok do you think my ex is telling him to do that or is it that the friend cares because i am having a hard time to deal with it to the point of doing dumb things to myself. Like i don't want to live any more ect. Willl i ever find my prince charming again. Will he ever come to realize the choice that he made and will it be too late.
2007-03-04 03:32:03 · update #2
What do you want to hear?
You don't have to be his friend if you don't want to. If it makes you uncomfortable, then break off contact with him. You'll probably start dating again in a few weeks/months.
2007-03-04 03:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats alot to deal with but he is a grown man mom doesnt make decisions for him anymore,he makes his own decisions. your right it is hard to be a friend to a former lover but compromise is the key word. if he loves you and is acting this way he is confused and needs you to be a friend more than a girlfriend compromise for now and be rewarded later,love is a crazy thing
gud luck with your relationship!
2007-03-04 03:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by jasmin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2007-03-04 03:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋