Ive been dating this guy or almost 2 months now. He is 16 and Im 14 almost 15(i know there is an age diffrence and that im too young for it.) and he knows that going all the way isnt something i want to do at this age, and he told me he understands and would not push me untill i say im ready. Does he really mean that or will he get fed up with me?
2007-03-04 03:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, my boyfried is 17 and im 15 and I told him I'm not ready for anything and I may wait for marriage and he is ok with it.
If he really loves you and he's a good guy then he'll wait.
Sex isn't love you have to develop a a real lovig realationship without it first.
2007-03-04 03:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell...
He is 16. I was once 16. (eons ago) but one thing that hasn't changed is that he wants you to say you're ready asap. Beware of being pressured (even a little) into making a decision you may regret just in order to keep him.
Further, and I hate to be this cynical to a 14 yr old, but very often boys will leave you after they have conquered you.
2007-03-04 03:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is willing to wait.
So just hang in there and when you get ready I am sure he will be too.
You are to young so see if he is willing to wait a couple of years at least. If hes not then he is not the guy for you. Keep looking for someone who cares enough to be patience
2007-03-04 03:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared and liked you..he would respect you and your wished to wait until you are ready. You do not have to give in to him just because you are worried that he is on the verge of leaving you..plus you are too young!!! Why are kids trying so hard to act grown up??
2007-03-04 03:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by ktopping23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends cause the guy i was with who is now deeply in love with me said the same thing and i trusted him i worked out ok and all i had to say was no then i knew i was ready and i told him and we did but i wanna wait again and he said he will wait as long as he needs to so there are guys out there who respect girls just find the right one
2007-03-04 03:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by BaBy KaTe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, ti means he is willing to wait and respects you feelings. A very rare find in the world today.
2007-03-04 03:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling the truth then good job you found a good one. if not you need to drop him like a sak of potatoes. always let him know he ain't getting any until your wedding night
2007-03-04 03:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shamona 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's more to life and relationships then sex...if he says and u trust him then believe him too...he wnt get fed up jus b/c u guys wnt have sex and if he does..then he's not worth ur time
2007-03-04 03:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by 123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell. do you think he's honest? it sounds like you guys need to communiocate more. he might wait, and stil respect u, but don't let him pressure u it's UR body, not his.
2007-03-04 03:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by ReRe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes a 16 yr. old can .....and yes u are too young....if he will wait even better that lets you know that he cares about your feelings......WAIT......no since in rushing....remember u can not get that back ever.....think about it....
2007-03-04 03:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by thanh hien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋