I have a boyfriend but he is really protective of me. Im in high school and i have a lot of boudaries about talking to other guys. I love him tons but i want to have some of my freedoms back. I dont want to upset him and i have already talked to him about it and he says that he is very easy going wit me(but that isnt true)
what should i do, should i just talk to guys anyway?
AND------- if i go to a party he makes me feel like a possesion cuz he uses me as a trophy.....he makes out wit me and i really just wanna hang out wit my girlfriends but he wants me to hang out wit his guy friends..................... WAT SHOULD I DO????
2007-03-04 03:19:01 · 7 answers · asked by sweetie24688 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the first answer.. the guy is very immature and controlling. Not only that he seems to be a bit insecure with himself. What he subconsciously realizes is that he is not filling his duties as a boyfriend, so his sees others as a threat. He probably doesn't know how to let you have the freedom to talk to whomever and still hang on to you. You should let him know that you love him and you are not interested in anyone else, but if he continues with his controlling ways you don't have any choice but to walk away from the relationship that is mentally abusing you. As far as him wanting to "make out" in front of his friends you should address that also. He is just saying to the people around him "hey look at me ...look what I got...". In actuality it is really pathetic.
2007-03-04 03:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by tomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, if you are flirting with other guys when you talk to them that might be why he's so protective, it might also be because he thinks you're too good for him so he views you talking to other guys as a threat. if he keeps treating you like that for no reason and like a trophy tell him he's gonna have to find another trophy.
2007-03-04 03:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by pas211n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him and have an agreement,how to set up a good relationship.Tell him you need to have freedom to talk with yours friends and he can do the same.You can not be her slave,Tell him; if he does not change his mind,the relationship will be over.Imagine,if you marry with this man,you life will be a nightmare.Talk to him.Good luck.
2007-03-04 03:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna have to let him know that if he can't trust you it's not gonna work. It seems that mabye this guys been hurt before like this, and that's why he's so protective. Either way you have to let him know that you have certain "boundaries". You just have to set them and let him know that if it can't be that way then ya'll can't be together.
2007-03-04 03:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very immature, controlling, obsessive and not good boyfriend material. If he won't back off and respect your wishes, dump him. You can do much better! Good luck!
2007-03-04 03:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down easy
2007-03-04 05:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by retawknird2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋