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Alright I seem to always make bad decisions. Before I do something I think oh this will be fine but after I do it I always regret it.

Can someone give me tips on how to make decisions you won't regret?

2007-03-04 02:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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You have to think critically about your decisions. Remember this: For every action there is a consequence. It will either be positive or negative. Think about what the outcome may be before you obligate yourself. Don't make spur of the moment decisions. Every decision that you make in life will not be the right one; we are not perfect people, but I think your decision making skills will improve if you put more thought in to your decisions before you act on them. Good Luck.....

2007-03-04 02:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by JD, MAPSY 6 · 0 0

I think the key is expectations here. I have learned that when I epect something it almost never happens... or not the way I expected... So the first thing you can do is make the discision anyway, but tell yourself clearly not to expect any particular outcome. That will help in being less dissappointed. if you do make the wrong choice you need to think about why you feel dissappointed or why you regret it and compare it to what you thought beforhand... that will tell you something and then you can recalibrate your expectations and make better informed discisions. it is about what you want think and feel, not what the outside factors are...

2007-03-04 02:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0 0

Well come to that point, When you are at the fork in the road. Choose the other way. Try that first, if it doesn't work. then talk to a close friend about it. See if any of these help! Debate the Pros and Cons, Cause and Effect., You Know.

2007-03-04 03:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by rebornphoenix 2 · 0 0

a wise man investigates what a fool takes for granted.

learn from the wise older people who have gone before you.
any fool can learn from their mistakes..its the wise man who can learn from other peoples mistakes..

one rule of thumb..don't hang with the losers or the cripples in life as you will soon be limping too

2007-03-04 02:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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