I've never been in love before and I am in serious trouble. The woman I've been living with for about 8-months makes me melt just by looking at her, when she's in my arms it's such an over-powering feeling that I know this is where I want to spend the rest of my life. The problem is that I want to spend every minute of every day with her and if I don't get every free minute I start feeling insecure and thinking that if she don't feel the same way then she must not really love me like she says she does, I then get pissed off and leave without telling her and I'm gone for 5 or 6 days until she finds me and is very angry and hurt. I do this about once a month and now she's told me that she just can't take it anymore. Help! I don't want to lose her but I don't know how to control my insecurity and jealousy. I love her to much. What do I do???
2007-03-04 02:23:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there's a an over limit when it comes to love. There's a healthy way of loving and an unhealthy way though. Is your love becoming more of an obsession, and is she becoming more of a possession? If you love her why would you keep leaving if it hurts her so much? And why would you keep leaving if doing so has caused you to have this serious problem!
Is your relationship with this woman so problem free that you have to create your own problems? Maybe you subconsciously don't feel worthy of such happiness so your sabotaging yourself? The first step to solving this problem is to ask yourself one question:
"Would I be happier living out the rest of my life with her or with out her?"
It's not all about finding someone you can live with it's all about finding someone you can't live without!
2007-03-04 03:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you get so depressed when she leaves that you consider chopping her head off and keeping it in your freezer.
2007-03-04 11:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by InTheWright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋