How the HELL can you TELL???????????

Question

How the hell can you tell when a guy REALLY likes you as more than a friend??? What are some signs that he'll give???

I SUCK AT SPELLING (always have) so i'm sorry for any spelling mistakes... i'm too lazy to do a spelling check!

THANK YOU ALL IN ADVANCE!!!

i'm talking about ages 13 to 16... not ages like 44

Answer 1

***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
- He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
- He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

--He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
-- He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
--He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
--He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
---Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
---DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

***** These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

---He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

---His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

---His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

--- His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

-- When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

--- He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

--- His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

--- If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

---He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

--- He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

Thats pretty much all lolol.

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*Much LOve* **God Bless**

Answer 2

ok there are a lot of signs. A couple of signs are if he asks to the movies or asks you to hang out or do stuff with him. Or if he calls you a lot of like to email/IM you thats a sign too. Also remeber to be yourself around him because guys dont like girls pretendning to be someone there not. Oh another way to make sure you get good signs to hangout with him more and get to know each other better because then his signs will be stronger and you have a better chance of dating him. Well i hope i have helped in some way. Good luck

Answer 3

I agree its like is almost impossible to tell and i dont wanna go up and ask OH do you like me?? So i looked it up on google and I found:
Take a step into his personal space and if he stays there he might like you
He probably will tease or joke around with you
He makes eye contact and smiles
Some guys say that they try to be funny and smile,
but the shier guys might tend to be quieter, and make less eye contact!

I hope this helped you, and not to mention me!

Answer 4

as a rule 'guy+friend' when you are teen like you more then a friend... unless he is gay. He is probably shy and unsure in your feelings. Fear of refusal make him act "just friends". If you like him and want to be 'more' then encourage him. Flirting a bit with him, highlighting him as gentleman, mentioning he would be a great BF always helps.
Just don't over do it!

Answer 5

.. It doesn't matter if he's 13 to 16 because if he has a bulge in his pants it means he likes you. If you don't believe us then just ask him and say. " Do I give you a ***** when you look at me"
That's how the hell you can tell.

Answer 6

Well, there isn't any 'magic code' to figure out. It varies with each individual. The most obvious ones are flirting...but without any examples of what he's doing, I'm stuck on this answer. Can you elaborate?

Answer 7

here are some tips to know if the guy really loves you... it's from my own experience:
1. he make you special
2. he likes to surprise you
3. he always looks at you and you caught him taking glances at you.
4. he treated you with respect and like you the way you are
5. he make an effort to see you atleast once in a while.

Answer 8

He will try to sit next to you as often as he can, he will try to make you notice him a lot. For example if he plays sports...he will try harder when playing, run faster or simply make more noise so you will hear him.
If he is more daring, he will try to keep eye contact whenever possible, try bumping into you and he might even follow you at the mall!
If he is not so secure of himself...he probably will send a friend of his to talk to you to find out things about you, and if he is stupid...he will start dating one of your closest friends "to make you jelous!"".Boys are strange....But one thing can be said to their benefit when trying to conquer a girl....they are creative!
Open your eyes! see the clues! good luck.

Answer 9

funny, you say you are too lazy to do spelling check but you took more time telling us that than you would have taken just to do the actual spell check itself

Answer 10

ok so im like that age too .. and it sucks because you cant tell cos guys of that age are LIKE 10 TIMES more immature than girls are ! its sucks .. they just like annoy you cos they think you like it ! .. or they dont speak to you cos there shy .. so basically u just have to ask ! x