Hi
i love my boyfriend and he loves me but there is one problem, he keeps on sending me a same message over and over again!
that is what he sent:
"i wont bother you anymore, ill leave you alone, im not coming online so you wont have to stay online for me and you should spend more time with your family, as you have known them all your life and me you only known for1 year. take care hope you find that special someone your looking for cause its not me and you know that, goodbye."
i don't get it. we love each other soo much. but he is being like that with me. and when he realise that we love each other. but he said that he is sorry. but everytime i don't wanna talk to him. he always be like that with me.
can u help me please. thanks!
2007-03-04 02:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am soo conused. he always say the same thing over and over again. he knows that he can't live with out me. and he knows i love him soo much. but why he is being like that with me
2007-03-04 02:24:11 · update #1
first of all, i think he loves you but he feels like salt is put on his wounds sometimes. he is using reverse phycology on you to make it seem like hes wrong and not you. i guess there is some issue about "space" and how much time a person spends with "friends and family" i believe you love him and he thinks you can find someone better. he probaly has the feelings
to just hurt right now
and maybe even mad about something. if you really care about this relationship, confront him, talk it over, or use reverse phycology on him until you both admit something or solve the problem. Please just speak the truth. If he or you dont belive eachother there is no point putting more salt on wounds.'
so best of luck and i hope you "lovebirdS" will stay together in peace. other wise i think this is the end "when darkness turns to light it ends tonight. it ends tonight just a little time"
(-<)!
2007-03-04 02:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok someone like this doesnt deserve anyone. He has been rude to you so you can forget about him. Dont be rude back to him but move on. Its no use waiting for him to realize hes was an idiot everytime this happens. It might be hard to forget about him but it will be easy if you do it slowly. First stop answering his e-mails and when he calls dont answer. Then stop seeing him and then dont wave or even smile when you see him. The relationship will eventually fade away.
2007-03-04 02:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by ccc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he was giving more importance to family member he is having that much affection with his family members or he really like your family.he know the value of together with family members.even though he loves you more.don't think in other ways good luck.
2015-09-03 19:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by khyathi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having a pitty party and he's the only one at the party. He's trying to guilt you into something. Can you clarify what you say to him in order for him to respond like that?
2007-03-04 02:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to make you break up with him, because he doesn't have the balls to break up with you.
And... he wants to be able to say 'she broke up with me" so he can be the victim.
AND he's trying to control you by manipulating your emotions.
Next time he does it, say "you're right. Goodbye" and then stay away.
2007-03-04 02:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry love you are really missing the point
THATS WHAT US GUYS SAY WHEN WE WANT TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE POLITLEY AND PEACFULLY
seriously he wants you to take the hint by the sound of things sorry to say it but HE WANTS OUT !!!
2007-03-04 02:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by eddy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is really weird, you need to sit down with him and actuall talk with him and figure it out, not text message or email
2007-03-04 02:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is called needing to grow up and insecurity
2007-03-04 02:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋