Who would a woman choose?...
1) A local handsome guy with a medium income?
2) A foreigner, handsome guy with a very high income?
I am asking this question because I want to know if discrimination between locals and foreigners exists in a woman's mind when talking about a relationship. I am a foreigner myself but I have lived in this country, Greece, since my first year of life. So can anyone please give me some solid examples and thoughts........thank u!
2007-03-04 02:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being a woman i would choose whomever i fall inlove... i didn't look for riches or anything as long as the guy can feed and clothe his family that's ok.
>i'm also a foreigner here in this country where i'm living right now but i don't want to have any discrimination... we're all human beings and we must treat each other equally. if the everybody would have a "discrimanation attitude" we will not live in peace. there would always have war, and arguments because each race thinks they're better than the other.
>i make friends with foreigners and also local guys it's good to feel free to communicate with everybody because they're all your friends right?
>for your question: who would a woman choose? i would choose # 2. it's not that i want the money but i also want to get to know him better. but it still depends whom i'm gonaa marry because i want to follow my heart. i want to choose the guy who would really love me more, respect me as a person and close to my family, realtives and friends. i'm just a simple person, i want to live a happy life where love and happiness exists. that's what every woman wants in their lives. to be loved and be respected as a human being.
2007-03-04 02:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take the one I am in love with whether it be a foreigner or local. The income part can change. But I must admit, it is a lot more comfortable if you are raised in the same environment..this does not discriminate between locals and foreigners. I went to an International School so I just prefer an international background.
2007-03-04 10:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey22_jp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wouldn't matter either way to me darlin- It is truly what is in the heart and not the pocket-book for me. Foreigner or local if you're a sweet-heart of a guy it doesn't matter. Now I wouldn't take on a bum mind you of neither. Some woman go for the money. some women go for the looks- Some woman go for whatever they can get- I've seen them all. I'm pretty sure all we gals have had pals like that or seen girls at school like this. It's the sincere Heart for me.
2007-03-04 10:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women won't think of the foreign vs domestic thing because they will look at the person himself. However, some women will be discriminatory because of where the man comes from. Some will be driven by the difference in income. These last 2 types of women u don't want to be around anyway because they don't like u for u they like u for what stereotypes u meet in there minds.
2007-03-04 10:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, the deciding factor for me is his personality, sense of humor, ability to laugh at himself, the way he treats his family, some amount of finacial stability. I could care less where he was from, and how much he makes is irrelevant; it's how he spends it that concerns me.
Sort-of an ambiguous answer, but in a way, the choices you are giving are not fair. A lot of women would choose a man with a very high income, doesn't matter where he's from.
2007-03-04 10:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by bohemian rebel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is far more that enters into the equation than looks and income. For the long haul, most women will choose someone that they are comfortable with. The looks and money may get their attention, but it won't make a relationship last.
How do you treat women?
Integrity is a huge thing for me!
Don't lie, don't cheat! Treat me with kindness, respect and love.
Talk to me...respect my opinions and my value as a person.
Do that....and the other superficial things won't matter quite so much....they just get our attention...
I don't think that I am one bit different from most women.
2007-03-04 10:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go by income--depends on which personality I liked-local or foreigner
2007-03-04 10:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥fungirl♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At my school we had these German boys, and my gosh they were so hottt. We're talking better than Ambercrombie&Fitch hot.
Anyways i got to know one of them and he was sooo nice, taught me some German [and he was rich, which i found out later]. But he lives on some random farm in Germany and knows what a hard days work, he told me he worked for min. wage doing laundry/or dishes i forget.. So for me its all about personality (looks and riches help sure)
* its nice to be important/rich etc., but wayy more important to be nice.
Haven't you noticed how ugly they protray rich kings in movies?
Im from bolivia [live in usa] so i always wondered what them spanish guys are like lol
2007-03-04 10:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sam K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman cannot just decide like that, we need to know what they are like, it doesnt matter if they are foreign or not its their personality that matters most. even if the local and foriegn man had low wages i would need to know them from the inside.
2007-03-04 10:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a local, handsome guy, b/cuz he is handsome. it doesn't matter what his income is just how much the girl loves him and she will take him.
2007-03-04 10:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by M.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋