im 16 and deeply in love with my boyfriend.He is in love with me too.We both think we are the 'one' and i would love to spend my whole life with him.Do you think its stupid that i think hes gonna be the guy i marry?And do you think we can last when he leaves for college next year?(hes 18)-i think we can.i just want your opinions.please dont say anything rude like im too young or w/e
2007-03-04 01:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not giong to college,he is but hes going to UGA which is only like an hr away from atlanta.
2007-03-04 02:01:28 · update #1
no its not too early..im 16 and my bf is 18. i will let u know a little bout our relationship. he was my first boyfriend the first guy i kissed and the first guy who ever made me feel loved. and i wouldnt have it any other way. he is also a united states marine, wich means i never see him, yes we talk but its also very had on the both of us. we have also decided to keep our virginity till we are married.. umm.. having your boyfriend not home will be hard but like my momma alays says "absence makes the heart grow stronger" and its true...
good luck Let me know what happens...
tealpearlgrace05@yahoo.com, is my email hit me back
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2007-03-04 02:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Long distance relationships are hard, believe me, I know. You might be too young, yes, but then again, you might be really mature for your age (which is doubtful). It's not uncommon for girls to think about marriage so early, but you're probably going to go through a lot of relationships before you find the real "one". I had a boyfriend who dumped me on my 16th birthday. I thought he was "the one". Obviously not. So no, I don't think it's stupid that you think the way you do, but if you break up, it's going to hurt a lot.
It's likely that your boy will find someone else at college. College changes people, for better or worse. His friends will probably make fun of him for having a high school girlfriend and insist that "what she doesn't know can't hurt her" or that "college girls are more fun". He's going to want his freedom. There's a chance that you could still make it work, but realistically, it probably won't happen.
2007-03-04 10:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it's really hard having a long distance relationship. one of my best friends has a boyfriend who is like a 4 or 5 hour drive away from her and they have problems. they've broken up and gotten back together like 20 times. they think they're meant for eachother, and in many ways i think they're right. but it's still very hard for them to be away from eachother for so long. as for thinking he's the one at 16, it's not stupid, but you do have to be careful. many times it's because it's so new that you don't realize it's not as great as you think it is. Just be careful and stay strong. It will be hard when he leaves.
2007-03-04 10:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by hepliin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest long distance relationships really dint work unless u go with or he gos to school there,and i don't think Ur to young to be in love love dont have an age,i think its romantic and sweet that u have someone,but u guys should really talk about how u can work things out while hes gone,like visits and calls and things like that.
good luck.
2007-03-04 09:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Boo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is too early, wait until you are at least 18. It is not stupid to think he is going to be the guy you marry, but you never know. He may find another girl, he likes, more than he likes you. I know, it sounds impossible, but it is possible. A similiar thing happened, to a friend of mine. Please, be careful out there.
2007-03-04 10:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, it's stupid. long-distance relationships do not work. ever. in fact, he's probably railing some girl right now. you should go to college, have a good time, and grow up a little.
2007-03-04 10:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by admiril 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone thinks the same way you do when they are in high school. I was with this girl for 2 years when i was in high school and i thought i loved her and vice versa and 7 years later we are not even friends
2007-03-04 09:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by tonyalmeida 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
congrats on finding him already, I say go to college, see what happens, but if you are meant to be then great! Good luck!
2007-03-04 09:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hai, i'm 16 too. i think its ok to love him. it is not stupid to love your boyfriend. if you think, he is the one for you, go ahead but don't make it effect your study ok. and gud luck
2007-03-05 02:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait more for date. go colege
2007-03-04 09:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋