i mean ladies if what is between your leggs is like gold, why do you just give it away, don't you think he should pay the price??? "$ I.do" before he can have the goods, to many young single moms out there.........
2007-03-04 01:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by robert m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Daddy issues and poor upbringing. Incomplete sex education in which mechanics are taught, but not meaning. Subscription to feminist ideology, in which promiscuity is equated with sexual freedom, and a politically correct culture which is afraid to judge others.
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To the Feminists (and I use that as a pejorative) Who Equate Female Promiscuity with "Equal Rights":
The reason female promiscuity IS a bigger deal than male promiscuity is that MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. And one of the ways we're different is in what we want with regards to sex.
In general, men are all too happy to hit it and quit it. Wham, bam, thank you, ma'am. We'll holla back at 'cha (if we're out some night and can't find someone new to do, and you'll get a 3 AM booty call). In short, men want the thrill of conquest and the ecstasy of release. And after the act, we don't care what you're thinking, except to hope that you're not hoping this is the start of something more. This is, for us, our Happy Ending.
But judging from the number of heartbroken, bitter and angry women out there, women want more. Whereas men use sex as an end in itself, women use sex as a means. When women give sex, they do so in the hope that they are buying something with their consent: Love, at first. Then after a few broken hearts, they'll settle for affection. And when well-used and desperate, attention will suffice. But even when her spirit has sunk to the point that sex becomes little more than an animal act performed to stave off boredom and loneliness, there will always be a part of her wishing there was something more.
Monogamy and restraint are not natural. In both sexes, where it is found, it has been taught. But there's very good reason why, traditionally, it has been emphasized for women. It's because people once recognized the inherent differences between men and women, and saw how women must behave in order to get what they ultimately want.
2007-03-04 01:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
But we do pay the price, dude! And don't buy into the ultra-right wing lies about all those young women deliberately having babies so they can go on welfare - it is a MYTH! A great many single moms earn good money and have chosen to go without husbands and manage to raise good kids quite nicely.
As for me - I'm darn glad the women I have known have given it to me freely and without strings...and so far not one has gotten pregnant other than the one I was married to for eighteen years. See, women have the ability nowadays to decide for themselves if and when they want to have babies...they can choose instead just to do it for pleasure - and I'll tell ya what: this ol' Mick is plenty happy to give 'em all of that they can handle! Granpa absolutely makes his young ladies' teeth rattle!
2007-03-04 02:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what youre saying.its sad.im 16 and about 4 months ago when i was 15 i decided i was ready to have sex with my 17 year old(now 18) boyfriend.we both have been together over a year and are deeply in love.you always hear people saying that sex should only be when you both love eachother.theres so many mixed views about sex.my parents raised me to have sex when i was married and thats always how i felt.but i feel this is the guy im gonna marry.so i did it..we both right after realized what a stupid thing it was we just did and i wanted to cry.i had given away one thing i can NEVER get back.and what if he isnt the guy i marry? i will feel terrible because thats something i should have saved for my husband.its definitely changed me and he feels terrible.hes not the kind of guy who pressures you into stuff and could have cared less if we didnt do it and he regrets doing it cause its just something special that we should have saved.so yea...whoever hasnt given it up yet...DONT.trust me its so not worth it.
2007-03-04 02:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest the girls that do give it up as you put it are the ones that have had bad role models or had a lot of pain in their lives. It is a very sad situation but it all started way back in the 60s with the 'free love' culture. Now even very young girls 'give it up' because they are led to believe that the guy will love them more. All a girl wants is love and intimacy, guys are all about sex, no matter their age. I am 25 and have never given it up and not because it is gold as you put it but because I value myself and respect myself.
2007-03-04 02:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does being a young, single mom have to do with being easy? Those are two separate entities.
But for the girls who are "easy", there is an underlying problem. Shouldn't a man be more concerned if a girl is willing to give "it" up so "easy"?
Men are the easy ones.
2007-03-04 01:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 05:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have surrounded yourself with SLUTS>
We arent all like that.....but are fewer good girls around now days. U gotta look for us. We do exist. And chances are, we are sitting in the sidelines watching these other gals work for the attention.....Truth is, its fine with us. We know what we are about, and any fella who would rather have an easy lil gal rather than a good girl, dont deserve our time.
Try looking over the shoulder of the easy gals. Thats where u will see us.
Good luck to u.
2007-03-04 02:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think they're to many young single moms because there must have been wrong with the guy. Plus, what you said was kind of pervish so.
2007-03-04 02:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know why? For a few reasons. Girls who give it up easily are usually the type who thinks that she would be more accepted by the guy if she did (which is the opposite) and wants to please him. Why? Because you guys pressure girls. You want sex and pressure the girl for it and when she does, you don't want her anymore. If she doesn't, she risks you losing interest anyway, which you do a lot of the time. So, you see the conumdrum women face? It's you guys who pressure girls, but when they agree, you lose respect and if they don't you lose interest. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
2007-03-04 01:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and find the right person first, fall in love then loose it to him. Thats all there is.
I have no idea why girls just give in and give it to them guys. Seriously. You take a BIG risk after and when you lose you. There are STD's and other things. Thats all i got to say.
2007-03-04 01:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋