I recently split up with my boyfriend,because he had issues he had to sort out that were ruining the relationship.He said he would do anything to sort himself out so we could be happy together.But then he went off that night,and got steaming drunk with another girl and slept in bed with her.The whole situation made me feel i cant even consider him as a friend anymore.I'm angry and upset.I collected all the things together that remind of me him and stored them away,which might help?What do i do now?
2007-03-04 01:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may love you a lot but not more than the issues that are ruining the relationship. so, move on and start afresh.
2007-03-04 02:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know storing his things away may not help you at this time because they are still in the house, and you know they are there, but when you are ready you will know when to give them back, but do give them back because it maybe that your holding onto them in case he comes back or in case you take him back. But if you take him back you also take back his issues and what he did to you, and you are also saying to him its ok for him to do that to you. But you deserve much better. In time you will heal, but don't isolate yourself from your friends or the world. If you lock yourself away you will only start thinking about all the "what ifs". Don't allow yourself too much time to think on these matters it will bring you down. And whatever you do, don't blame yourself for his mistakes, You never forced him to do what he did. He just never knew how great he had it. Also learn to forgive him. don't carry any of these issues on to the next relationship you will have, otherwise you will think the next guy you meet will treat you the same way, and not all guys are like that. I really wish you all the best.
2007-03-04 10:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by maarigil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! Thats a hard thing to deal with! You never really get over something like that but it may help if you get out with your friends and have some fun. get him off your mind by flurtting with other guys! If he went off and just slept with someone then you weren't ment to be with this person! theres tons of other guys out there. it may not seam like it at first. your singal again go have fun!!! I'm sure it will be hard to see or even talk to him again. You know that stuff of his? it will help if you burn it!! I had a BF that broke up with me and I was living with him snd his family! the next week after he got back with his ex.... I had to see him and his ex together everyday! So girl Get out and have fun don't think about him!!!!!
2007-03-04 10:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Roni Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not just store his things,give them to him.He sounds like he might have an alcohol problem.You told him that it was affecting your relationship and his way of not having to change or quit was to sabotage.My ex husband did this.You will never have any lasting happiness with an alcoholic or drug addict.
2007-03-04 09:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety a relationship is base on trust respect and compromises in life,if you partner does not provide honer you with that you have nothing in a relationship and you should sell any value that remind you of him,,and dispose any trash he left that remind you of him and look for a person that deserve you,,
2007-03-04 10:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by salvador l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look back. Move on. He's a phallic.
Make yourself more beautiful and go fishing.
There are so many fishes in the ocean.
2007-03-04 09:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by nontester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your close girlfriends and just talk about it until you feel better. Better yet..go out and have some fun with your girlfriends and just forget about him for a night. You'll feel better with a clearer head..give it some time though!
2007-03-04 09:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by ktopping23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw the things in the
garbage, and move on!
2007-03-04 09:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u wanna know somthing funny.....all of your questions are about this same thing!!!!!!!!!! ask a new question!!!
2007-03-04 09:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋