Ladies, What would make a person leave when everything is going good?

Question

I met this girl from work. She has only been here for about a month but we really started to hit it off. I then find out she is moving back to where she came from up North. What would make someone leave when things are going good? Someone else? Maybe I mixed the signals?

Answer 1

you really havent known her for that long

so im unsure why you think your relationship would have so much sway over where she lives or what she does in her life

i really wouldnt take it personally nor would i agonize too much over the reasons for her departure when things were going well

you most probably dont know the whole story about her life before you. by this i dont necessarily mean someone else that she is linked with romantically

maybe she missed family or a really good friend, maybe she got an awesome job offer, she has a sick relative she would like to help, she cant live without her dog etc

sounds like she really did like you and what you shared together was real.........

however that is not always enough to make someone stay......

Answer 2

First off, you should ask her why shes moving. [there could be other reasons including - another job, another guy, family issues etc. remember: she may not hav any control over the move]

That's why it depends on how you heard it. If she didn't tell you directly it may have to do with a guy or some other personal issue. Just make sure before she leaves, ya gotta tell her how you feel for her (even if she already knows, remind her) bc if you dont then ull regret it. ♥ good luck, remember month-long love can be tricky.

Answer 3

What makes you think she's leaving because things are good? Maybe she got very homesick and regretted her move. Or, maybe she did have a boyfriend up there and ended things when she moved. Who knows why she's really leaving.

Answer 4

It's possible she has family up north and they need help or she just feels the need to be back home. And then again, she may have left someone special back there and realized she still wants to be with him....

Answer 5

A better job opportunity
A long-term relationship she might have forgotten to mention
Family
Cost of living
Maybe she is just happier up north

Start asking her questions about her home-town. Let her know you would love to come visit and watch her reaction closely (that will answer the other guy question).

Answer 6

she probably has family and old friends...... you know, " there is no place like home". its hard to say why she would go back, cuz we can't know, but i will say that things are always more complicated than they seem. don't take it personally, she is making the best decision for herself.
sorry if your feelings will be hurt by it, but maybe you two will stay in touch, and something more will come for you guys in the future.
♥

Answer 7

Obviously, its something that you don't know about. Its probably totally irrevelant. She probably has some type of situation that she has to or something. But anyway, yeah if i had a lovely relationship I wouldnt leave for no reason! lol

Answer 8

maybe shes not moving because of you.that would be a stupid reason.i think shes probably upset to leave you but needs to go back for maybe a family problem or maybe she just didnt like working there...idk i doubt its because of you

Answer 9

Maybe she has someone up north and does not want to tell you.

Answer 10

She may have family and friends there.

Never date a person you work with.
That can be trouble if there is a break up.