About a month ago, my bf told me that he wanted to take some "space" and we broke up. 3wks later we went out on a date together. Then a week later we got back together, but when I went to his place I found a woman's hair comb sitting on his bathroom sink. I burst into tears, but didn't show him my pain. Later I brought the comb to him and asked him who's it was. He said it wasn't his and he didn't know who's it was, but that one of his buddies (guy) had been staying with him and my have left it there. (It had long women's hair in it). I left it alone, but I still think about it. I think he was lying, but does it matter when we were broken up? I keep wondering if he's still seeing this woman and if she is the reason he needed space. What do I do? And could this just have been a faise that he went through? We've been together for over a year.
I just need your opinions?
2007-03-04 01:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are pigs and have natural desires, if they don't have sex at least every 2 weeks they will find someone to have sex with
2007-03-04 01:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, faise is spelled phase. Secondly, I would feel the same as you. Are you back together exclusively? What he did or you did when you guys were broken up does not matter. But now that you're exclusive again, talk to him and make sure he is not seeing someone else and you two are exclusive. He could be using you if he had a fall out with that girl, and just called you for comfort. I would be very careful and suspicious. It seems so sudden to be with one woman and then switch to another.
2007-03-04 09:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you do not trust him tell him how you feel and take it from there no point continuing a relationship with no trust it is a waste of time.. Men do go through different phases like women do but it is no excuse for lying. Whatever he did is really none of your business because you were not together. But that doesn't mean you have to like it or be able to deal with it everyone is different but either way he should be honest
2007-03-04 09:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be sirprised if he wants to periodically break up with you.This is his way of seeing other women without feeling like he,s cheating on you.He doesnt sound like he is ready to be exclusive.Why would you want to commit yourself to a man that wont be.
2007-03-04 09:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is bugging you that much (which I think it is) you have to tell him you need to know the truth so you can figure out where you guys stand . . .
2007-03-04 09:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he not ur type then. he probobly was lyin but oh well. whats past is past. stay cool yo!
-Calvin
2007-03-04 09:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Calvin Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋