i can only play hard to get when i dont care about the person , because then i wouldn't have to call every day n txt .... so if the guy says you need lay back a bit ,,,, how can you if you care so much for the person you want to always be there.
2007-03-04 01:22:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who play hard to get are usually self-absorbed twats with big egos,this kind of head games are of immature people.I understand you because I'm clingy by nature and love tends to turn me into mega-pain in the ***-stalker,lol,but I'm working hard on respecting my lover's boundaries,1st of all because it can freaks the guy out,lol, and also because ageing,I came to understand that because he needs space or doesn't text/phone you back right away doesn't mean he doesn't give a **** about you,some people need space and find too much attention smothering.
2007-03-04 02:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
You will usually find that hard people have had hard pasts or in your case relationships. I think its a real shame when someone has to switch off and stop caring for someone in order to protect themselves. You are right the only way is not to care but you can only feel that way when you have taken all there is to take. Just don't let past relationships destroy your future happiness.
Chin up and good luck :)
regards idai
2007-03-04 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by idai 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she must not have as strong of feelings for you yet as you do for her.. It doesn't mean you have to be cold.. You can think about her every second but don't call her.. She sounds like she wants to take things slow.. Don't be cold just have a life of your own hang out with friends when your not together and call her every other day.. Good Luck
2007-03-04 01:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably do have to turn cold but whats the whole point of playing anything? if you really like the person and he likes you there is no reason to play unless again ur just looking for a fling that could be the one
2007-03-04 01:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by KrazySweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be cold... you just have to resist like right now my boyfriend has been gone for a day and a half on vacation and i already miss him since we normally talk like evryday for at least an hour and a half on the phone.. we cant call eachother because of longdistance but we can txt.. ive sent him 3! hes sent me one.. hasnt responded to 2 of them... then i realised i should just let hi have a break for a week... hes on vacation man! so i have to resist txting him.. as hard as it is... n maybe now hell txt me first n be like: i missed yu y havent yu txted me l8ly... so he'll realise just how special i am to him... YOU HAVE TO MAKE HIM WANT YOU
2007-03-04 01:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by girl_next_door_red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asking to back off a little.. I don't see the point of playing hard to get or anything for that matter.
2007-03-04 01:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still play hard to get by being friendly and nice, but just draw the line on how friendly and nice you get
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2007-03-04 02:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by topshag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make sense for you to play 'hard to get' then does it?
2007-03-04 01:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games will not win you anything.
2007-03-04 01:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question, you just need to be strong!
2007-03-04 01:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋