The other night, a group of us guys were out. We sat next to a couple of beautiful women. One of the guys resembles a minor celebrity. So much other patrons thought he was the real person.
The other guys in group furthered the concept that he was the celebrity. He never really said he was, but he did not deny. In fact you could say he furthered the "scam".
Even though the most beautiful woman did not know the celebrity, she became attracted to him. They exchanged kisses and telephone numbers.
The problem is that he really is attracted to her, too. But as they were parting, she said that she liked him because he was the real thing and not some phony guy she usually meets.
Was he a jerk for letting the others "scam" her?
Should he contact her and correct the "scam" or just lose her number and forget about her?
I told him he ruined a good thing, but to just forget about it.
2007-03-04 01:16:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he was a jerk if he didn't clear up the misunderstanding before the end of the night.
In all likelihood, he ruined any real chance he had with her by not coming clean, but to find out for sure I doubt that he would have anything to lose by calling her up now, telling her the truth and that the reason he is doing so is because he is really attracted to her and wants to get to know her better, but wants her to know the real "him" and just cannot bear for the charade to go on any further. Worst that could likely happen is that she may call him a name resembling a jerk and hang up.
2007-03-04 01:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, he ruined it. If he cant be honest about his own name, how the hell is she supposed to trust him at all? And she wont. Tell him to just move on and forget about it. Hopefully he learned his lesson and wont ruin a possible good thing by doing that again.
2007-03-04 01:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by mommyjessp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect when you meet people in the club. People front all the time. She's probably a gold digger anyway. He needs to move on......
2007-03-04 01:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shanee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely she was having you on as well, get him to phone her
take her out, it may be a good icebreaker.....
song for this --- More than a woman......
2007-03-04 01:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should contact her, tell her the truth---if she still likes him then ya, everythings great.........but if not--he got what he deserves.
2007-03-04 01:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those scams are cool. they get you laid regardless.
2007-03-04 01:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by edna b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋