About 2 months ago my best friend told me he thinks hes falling in love with me. Ever since my feelings for him have got stronger and i cant stop thinking about him, its driving me insane.
For a while we decided to try and get rid of these feellings because he has a girlfriend but that didnt work and one night we ended up kissing. He tells me hes falling in love with me but then i seen a text message to his girlfriend saying he loves her so much so i dont know what to think......They act all loved up sometimes and it is really starting to annoy me i dont know what to do.....
2007-03-04 01:10:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The writing is on the wall, give it a try go out with him................
ask him if he is trifling with you, if not then give it a try...............
2007-03-04 01:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is get on with your own life,maybe meet someone else,and see his reaction to this.if he leaves his girlfreind then youll no the answer,and likewise if he doesnt.sounds to me he wants his cake and eat it .thats not fair on you or his girlfreind .imagine if that was you ,how would that feel if you found out that hed been cheating with his best freind who she trusted him with.BIG BIG OUCH.
2007-03-04 09:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he's taking advantage of you. Stop being used, and get over it. I know it sounds harsh, but you will be way better off in the long run.
2007-03-04 09:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by inesp01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend! Sounds like he wants to have his cake and a little on the side...YOU!
As for what to do, simple...GET YER OWN MAN!
2007-03-04 09:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl you deserve someone better... hhmm.. don't be the second best... of course he says he's falling for you because he is comfortable being w/ you, not to mention that your his bestfriend... hhhmm... think and analyze things or you might get hurt... you have to be sure of what you feel. this might be infatuation stage your in....
2007-03-04 09:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can not decide between you two so he prefer to keep both of you his a two timer his got no sense of honesty so his a liar
better leave thi man and move you can find a man who got morals who you can depend on who you can trust
goodluck
2007-03-04 09:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings change and maybe his idea about [falling in love]is alot different than yours.
2007-03-04 09:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are his best friend, so keep it at that level, you know he sent text messages to his g/f... he just needs an extra affair with you,, so be aware of whats really going on.
2007-03-04 09:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i could be he is just trying to get in your pants or hes just trying to cover up to his gf that he lloves u
2007-03-04 09:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by danieln92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋