I talked to my ex's best friend yesterday and she told me that my ex broke up with me because she was having commitment issues towards me but that she still loved me. I want to try and talk this out with her but my ex asked me to give her some space. I don't want to push her into talking to me because I don't want to intrude on her space. But I have the feeling that if I don't talk to her about this she won't will feel like breaking up with me is the right choice. How do I get her to talk to me about this without intruding on her space?
2007-03-04 01:09:01 · 6 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should leave a message on her voicemail. Tell her what you have to tell her. If you talked to her on the phone she might feel pushed. Thats why you leave a message! vuala!
2007-03-04 01:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old the two of you are or how long you were in the relationship but if she has commitment issues then maybe she just wants to make sure what she feels is real. In today's world with the divorce rate soaring, it might be a good idea for people to step back and assess the situation once in a while. I don't think asking her to talk about it is intruding on her space. Call her once, tell her you would like for her to talk to you when she is ready and tell her you will be there to listen. Leave it up to her to come to you. Good luck!
2007-03-04 09:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to just move on. Most women when they say they are having committement issues it is just a way to get out of a relationship. They is someone out there that would love to meet you and I bet you don't even know it.
2007-03-04 09:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by philly69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd better give her the space. Give her a lot of it. If she's still interested, she will let you know in time. In the meantime, don't give her the satisfaction, of you moping around. Get out there and live !
2007-03-04 09:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to move on to greener pastures. all you are going to do is rehash the past and then you will have wasted a lot of time and energy with mind games.. there are more fish in the sea..regroup and get some distance from your ex
2007-03-04 09:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, she asked you to give her some space, so give it to her. don't worry, she's not going to disappear before your eyes. maybe try asking your ex's best friend when your ex has settled down a bit more. then, you can try talking to her.
2007-03-04 09:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋