A few days ago I did something that I probably shouldn't have done, I went to this girls house and I asked her if she liked me more than a friend, she said "I don't know its hard, I like you as a friend though," Now I'm really stressing out that she might not want to hang out with me anymore because she might feel awkward around me. She usually calls me on Tues. and thurs. because she knows I don't have class on those days, If she dosen't call me on Tuesday, should I do something to say I'm sorry and Tell her that I don't want her to feel awkward around me, because even though I like her a lot I want her to forget what about because before this she used to call me and wanted to know if I wanted to hang out and to talk. I would call her but she can't use her phone bcuz she isn't getting along with her parents, and her number is listed as a private #. Am I stressing over nothing? I always was nice to her and we always had a good time when we did hang out. what should I do???
thanks
2007-03-04 01:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she told you how she feels, then leave it at that do not push it
be her friend if she wants something more, she will ask you......
2007-03-04 01:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposite sexes can never be the same friends as same sex friends. If they are both attractive one of them really wants more than friendship.
Don't be the repressed guy who hangs around as a friend under false pretenses. You call and ask her out and if she doesn't want you as a boyfriend just move on. Don't be pathetic. You have already taken the first step, the genie is out of the bottle.
2007-03-04 09:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe. relax hun. you guys are great friends right? why would a simple question ruin such a friendship? okay, maybe it will be awkward at first but, if she doesn't bring up that subject again, maybe that means she only likes you as a friend. but don't worry! you can still be friends with her. if you're not really sure, why don't you try telling her how you feel first, instead of asking her how she feels? and then see what she says. so keep talking to her as usual at first, and see if she brings it up or not.
2007-03-04 09:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have had this happen to me and when the guy asked me if i liked him i got a little weirded out cause i wasnt in the same place and i did stop trying to hangout as much, but once he sat me down and explained where he was coming from and why he asked me that, i felt better if anything it made us closer. so i say go ahead and talk to her about it, but this is not a matter for the phone you really need to do it face to face. good luck!
2007-03-04 09:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time But I always say- follow y9our heart and if you don't call her you may regret it. You can find her #
2007-03-04 09:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋