Im shy when it comes to asking a girl out,
tips on how i can overcome it?
2007-03-04 01:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by =HIO= 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-04 01:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shy Guys, when asking a girl out maybe you should try asking through email, or AIM causally because maybe in person you might freeze up. But after the girl says yes, just try to get out of your shell and let the girl see the real you. I know its tough to do, but just try it and then you could really have a great relationship..
2007-03-04 09:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Janie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to overcome this is to face your worst fear. I think the worst fear in this case is rejection and humiliation. Part of my business involves sales, after the first day of being rejected several times you don't care, you do your best but people have their reasons and you just move on.
So what you should do is spend a week trying to get rejected. Ask out several girls who you know are out of your league, know you are going to get a no, and it will forever take the sting out of that fear. Who knows you might fail in this assignment and accidentally get a yes.
2007-03-04 09:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww....shy guys are cute. Im a shy girl. maybe i can still help you. I know that when i get all dressed up in nice clothes i get a confidence boost, cuz i think i look good. maybe you should do that. Get dressed all nice, smell super good, flash those pearly whites and talk to her. Dont try to be funny, unless its natural. I love guys that are funny. Also dont start a convesation off "I like your hair" or something. Cuz thats just wierd, but funny at the same time. .....im babbling...sorry....good luck, hun!
2007-03-04 09:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i love shy guys. girls often travel in groups and do things with other girls. if you can catch her in between classes or whatever then you wont have to ask her out it a group. you could also write her a note. just put you are to shy to ask her or something.
2007-03-04 09:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by katrinaisnthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self.girls no if your shy or not.make new friends.or ask one of your friend to do a blind date for you.it work for me because i was shy to.and my friend got me a blind date i was so shy and after its come naturally.then you will say to your self it wasn't to hard to do.so just keep your shyness and give them to God and He will reach for it.if your not catholic well believe in something that is good for you.i give you faith so go a head and beat your shyness.the decision will be your and yours only at the end. SHY GIRL I AM AND NOW I PUT IT IN GOD HANDS.HAVE A NICE DAY. CILLIA TAKE CARE NOW.XO
2007-03-04 09:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. try starting out small and innocuous, like if you are at a table with a few girls and you need to get up and get a drink, ask one or two of them if they would like a drink, etc.
then build up to asking questions of a girl about things that interest her so she feels comfortable talking about herself to you.
then maybe you'll build up the confidence to ask one out.
PS, don't try to accomplish this all in one day.
2007-03-04 09:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Wayne G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see a female that you are interested in then play it smooth and introduce yourself, then ask her name and try to think of something to talk about before you walk over to create conversation and when you feel yourself running out of things to say then tell her that you see her around or ask her for her phone number so you can talk more or give her your phone number and if shes interested she will call you.
2007-03-04 09:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by tony s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're normal People, Dude? Just like me & You. And they need some kindness, just like you. And they're really wantin' to hear from you. Go get `em, Tiger!
2007-03-04 09:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well build up your confidence and just do it i told i guy that i like that i like him and now hes giving me "the look" and i think that if hes into me he should just ask me out Good Luck
2007-03-04 09:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT. if the gal have the same feeling she will say yes, really, i been thru it myself. but 1st impression count alot!
2007-03-04 09:21:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋