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Question

my brother inlaw finace is always rude and bitchy to me. she has said nasty comments about my son and plays childish games. if you read my last question it will explain a few things more. i know now that she is going to great lengths to exclude me. do you think that it was stupid of me to say to the cousin inlaw that she sees all the time what i should have said directy to her. i told the cousin that i dont know what her problem is but feel as though she is jealous of us and feels threaten by me. this cousin told me months ago that she is jealous and now has just told me that she has been aware of bitchy comments she say to me. you see my sister in law threw a party and invited all other family members & not me. i said to the cousin that she made herself look stupid & that she is showing everyone just how jealous, & threaten she is by going to great lengths to exclude me. the cousin thinks that i need to ask her what the problem is. was it wrong saying these things to the cousin

Answer 1

No you weren't wrong but should have it out with her in a civilised manner if she gets nasty best thing to do is keep away from her when ever possible her loss not yours, but lets face it your brother-in-law,husband and other family members should also tell her that the behaviour is unacceptable. Next time she throws a party and doesn't invite you just turn up if she says anything she will only be making her true colours show good luck:)

Answer 2

No, everyone needs someone to talk to, but you should say these things to the problem person too and try to get it worked out.

Answer 3

the rest of the family should take position, against her attitude!