I've been seeing this guy for almost a month. Things are going really well but I wonder if and when we are going to get to the point of officially being boyfriend and girlfriend. I'd like to be with him exclusively but I am not sure what he wants. I am almost positive he isn't seeing anyone else but he has yet to ask me to be his girlfriend. Should I have to ask where things are going? I mean, if he wants me to be his girlfriend wouldn't he let me know without me having to ask? What should I do??
2007-03-03 23:37:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are a lot more simple than we are,basically if a guy dates you and is not seeing anyone else you can take that he sees you as his girlfriend.Men don't feel necessary to put words on things as we women do.Once you've understood that you can stop racking your brain about their feelings...
2007-03-03 23:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being patient, a month isn't a very long time, and he keeps coming around why do need words to tell you, just go along with the flow. You ask him and trust me he is gone because noone wants anyone desperate. Give it time as long as your having fun just enjoy dating....
2007-03-03 23:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO dont just think that you women are the only to cry or show depression we feel the EXACT SAME WAY we feel shy when it comes to that , if things are going good than he problably wants to be with you but is just to shy or afraid that you may say no , i bet anything hes thinking the same way as you WE HAVE EMOTIONS TOO ! so ask him before somebody else asks him dont just wonder every day " what if..." know!
2007-03-03 23:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hei there...
it's been realli hard on you.i know..actualli,im having the same poblem as you ryte now.i've known this girl 4 about 2/3 months,calls me dear,hold my hands n such but wen i actualli confessed to her tat i love her,she kept quiet and beginning to distanced herself from me.but she still do keep in touch with me,but only not as close as b4.
my feelings 4 her nvr fade.in fact it only makes me want her more.as for your problem,guys tend to be kinda shy nowadays.i'm shy too actuali..but i have to say it out bcoz im a guy,n i shud make the fers move.
you haf to take it slow and easy..dont put your mind totally on this issue.i can understand tat you're devastated coz' he's not asking you to be his girl yet but fret not...he likes you..aand he's juz finding the ryte time to say it out to you...perharps...you're in for a big suprise....
2007-03-03 23:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋