today i had a fight with my mother and she muttered something about life being better when i move out and bla bla. She thought i didnt hear her but i did.
Im a 17 yr old school student who ahs no job , and i am stuck as to wether it be a good idea for me to move out now, and make it easier on her....or wait until i am fully prepared and finished school?
2007-03-03 23:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by Vanity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im not sure where you are at but I don't think y ou can move out since you are only 17.
I think maybe your mother was just upset. Sometimes we parents say things that are not nice when we are mad.
Maybe she ment you two would get along better when you move out not that she wishes you would move out.
I would start by getting a job, Your old enough to start working. Do you have a car.? If not talk to your mother about driving you to and from work with you paying her gas.
It might help since you are in school and then if you are working you and her will not be around each other that often and it migh make thing a little better.
2007-03-03 23:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting isn't always fair. What your mother muttered was deliberately said loud enough for you to hear. Family relationships have their fair share of frustration. Get a bouquet of flowers, take them to your mom, give her hug and tell her that you love her. It should do wonders. And, don't even think about moving out yet.
2007-03-04 00:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents say thing out of anger; something they regret later on. Don't take it too seriously; they love you, I'm sure. Stay and finish school; getting yourself prepared for whenever you're ready to be on your own. It's a jungle out there. Take care.
2007-03-04 03:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah don't move out people say foolish things when they are angry i'm sure you will have done at some point in life try helping your mum out a bit when your home not loads just a little show her you appreciate her support and i'm sure she will do the same back :)
2007-03-04 00:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey cumon gal be strong. Try to understand her point of view. And all mothers say that when they are angry that doent mean they dont like you. If you leave she'll die out of a heart attack and i bet you dont want that to happen! So be calm and do remember...think thrice before making any decision. Be careful and am always there for you!
2007-03-03 23:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Choco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋