shes 22 im 16 - Advice!?

Question

shes 22, im almost 17 (16.9) - I know but its crazy what goes on! This is the wierd bit that im gonna cop it for. I take dancing lessons, (my mom dragged me into it, she's crazy bout it)
p.s. shes a bit quirky-never been on a date til like month ago-she told me but she has alot of g friends
were in AUS - NOT ILLEGAL -consent is 16

-Shes my teacher, and shes 1 of those very pretty but a little cudly, only a tiny bit tho, dont get me wrong. Very funny, we have fun together and i joke around n stuff with her then sumtimes it gets a little beyond that. I just dont know if she likes me??

-She asks me Q like do you have a girlfrien and she tells me evryting bout her nd stuff nd i wonder if she sais all this stuff 2 her other students

when she asked about my girlfriend she siad "id go out with you", and she sais she likes spending time with me 2

What do you reckon i do, wait for her/lay it down. I dont want it 2 be wierd tho. I dig her so much its lame, everything about her too!

Answer 1

She might not like you like that. I mean, you might be a cute boy, but she's just being nice. It's easy sometimes to take something nice and make something out of it. If all else, just ask her out or if she likes you? then your question will be answered, she'll give you something, one way or another, then you will know how the situation is. Good luck!

Answer 2

I skipped 6 grades in school, so I have LOTS of experience with older women. The first time I slept with a woman, I was 17 and she was 23. Then I actually got a girlfriend; she was around 30. The first woman I lived with for more than a month was about 7 years older than I was. And so on, straight through to my marriage (although there were plenty of younger ones along the way too). So I'm here to tell you that a big age difference is NOT necessarily bad.

That said, here are some tips:

1. Communication is key to relationships. Don't let any kind of natural embarrassment override that. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

2. If she tries to boss you around, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.

3. If she dumps you for no other reason than that she wants a more age-appropriate guy, don't be shocked. In general, assume this will be a short relationship until enough time has passed that you've proved otherwise.

4. When you look back later and realize you made a total *** of yourself in certain ways, don't be upset. 22-year-old guys also are clueless asses a lot of the time. ;)

5. If this doesn't work out for you at all, still let this be good for your confidence. I stayed sane a long time on the strength of being told, at age 13, "I really wish you were 5 years older." (Well, that and a couple of other favorable signs from my 18+ year old classmates ...)

Answer 3

great... decide for it, there is not any longer something greater advantageous than a older greater expirienced chick. you may desire to have a great time, why do you problem approximately it. in case you're thinking of a courting or smt, ignore it, its basically friendly her needs, and your's too. Ask her out, have some beverages, and a few intercourse , ya feelin that... If she says no, the hell together with her... :) Im 18, and when I dated/been with a 27 year old.. We had an AWSOME TIME, 4 real. :)

Answer 4

It very well may not be illegal, however emotionally abusive, ill-moral and unethical are words that come to mind. I say tell your mother, stop taking dance lessons with her. She has very well over stepped her boundaries, and should be reported. And go on and be a 16 year old young man, learning and discovering life with females your own age. Good luck and God bless****

Answer 5

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. I can say that is certainly a good example of how Aussies and many other nations are smarter and in head of the curve over Americans. Here they would want to call you heinous names. Yet, try to use sex to sell you everything, from breath mints, eye glasses, even burgers. I say count you lucky starts and go get the sweet 16. And enjoy every moment of it.

Answer 6

Its ok if she is your teacher and your 16 and she is 18 .I would suggest tell her that you like her . If not directly then indirectly I mean like appreciating her dress ,her smile ,tell her how good she looks ect and If she is intrested then she would show signs as well if not then she will ignore u.. The best suggesstion I can give u is dont take it to ur heart untill she says 'YES'...

Answer 7

Ur 16 she is 22. sounds like you haven't even asked her any questions.girls like to tease or just ask questions which means nothing to them. ask about her love life. women get too comfortable w/ guys younger that them. she might just think of you as a very friendly young boy.. ask her for a date and see what happens then.

Answer 8

when you say it gets a little beyond that what do you mean? Here is the states she is fooling around with what we call jail bate.

Do your self a big favor, just keep it real and don't get involved with her.

Answer 9

if you dont have a gf,just let nature take its course if she is into you eventually it will work itself out, but if your into her too,show that you like her to by not being shy and hanging out with her and throw her a compliment or two.tell her she looks great with that outfit on or something

Answer 10

I don't wanna touch that question with a 10 foot pole.