what would YOU do? hypothetically...?

Question

i like this girl and i dunno if she likes me back(i dont think so anyway), she told me that she's happier when shes single and doesnt want a bf atm. my question is do i ask her out? even after what she said? do i risk our friendship? just wondering on your opinions and what you would do if you were in this position, and how you would get her to say yes.

Answer 1

Ok it would be obvious to me that if she told me she liked being single then she didn't want to be with me. so i would not ask her out i would just continue to be her friend, but I wouldn't be just a friend i would go out of my way to do special things for her, i would probably be her friend who acts like an assistant. lol but that's what i would do.

Answer 2

Keep being her friend and show her that you're there for her. In time, talk to her and let her know that you would like to be more than friends if she is interested. Let her know that even though you want to be more than friends that you don't want to lose her friendship. You can't make anyone say yes, but you can show her that you care and want to be with her. Best of luck.

Answer 3

ask her, its better to ask her than to wonder EVERYDAY if you should ask or not , say what you have to say , dont just be wondering what if .......... and if you wait too long someother guy is gonna ask her and who knows she might say yes to that guy so ask her before someone else does , and if she is a true TRUE frind than nothing will change between you 2 if she says no , and if she does says no you have to be a true friend and repsect her decision , and be glad that she is your friend, life is all about taking risks especially when it comes to love so i encourage you to ask her

Answer 4

Find one thing she likes to do and see if you can find anevent about it. Don't use the word date or girlfriend. Just say I have 2 tickets.. or, Wanna see this with me? I hate to go alone.