i found my bf chatting with some girl on net.this thing is disturbing me.i feel like being cheated.i talked to him clearly about it . he said he loves me and nobody is in his life.but i am not able to trust him .what should i do?i love him a lot and very possesive about him .i am getting confused.
2007-03-03 23:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by ajnabi k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love someone then you need to trust him first. Dont try to force anything and make your boyfriend do what you feel. This might sound very uncanny to you but the truth is give some space in the relationship. He'll definitely be yours if the love is true. Too much possesiveness kills a relationship. He might feel the relationship as a bondage after a certain period of time.
In one word if you love him trust him.
2007-03-03 23:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people do chat. When he might loves you you shouldn't feel like he you've being cheated. But to tell you the truth sometimes people in internet almost have sex online! You should discuss it with him and tell him that this thing annoys you! If he decide that chat is more important maybe you should break up with him. Don't do this until you get his answer. He might does this thing just because he wants to make friends all over the world. Ask him clearly what kind of chat he's doing and then decide
2007-03-04 08:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry,Whoever sits in front of computer starts chatting with people online.I can understand ur feelings how it feels becoz u r so much in love with him that every thing abt him makes u concerned and inquisitive.Ur focus shud be on his attention towards u.Is he still giving same love and respect.Is he behaving like before.If u really find something missing then u shud scrutiniz the matter.U shud ask him abt it.Without any proof dear dnt go to conclusion,before that try to find out the deficiencies in ur relationship.
2007-03-04 07:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ishh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want her to chat, then specifically say that...If you do not want her to chat, then you do not chat either.
I chat and 90% of my conversation is about the man I love. I make it clear that I am not looking for a relationship. I dont send picturese nor accept any. I do not cam nude or show off. He has been so distant ...i just wanted to talk. most of the time i go to room where each person plays 2 songs....
But if asked not to chat...i wouldnt. I stopped visitinig specific sites that were offensive to him. She may jst need to talk to friends....
we all have friends of the opposite sex. the best thing is he needs to introduce you to her..and you all be friends...
2007-03-04 07:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by LetTheSunShine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to worry as long as he is just chatting on net, and has no intention to meet them off-line. Rather than paying a lot of attention to what he does online, pay attention to yourself, try to be more confident and attractive! Make him turn his computer off and chase you. All the best.
2007-03-04 07:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my love has stoped going to chat room nor i go because i was talking to my friend because she called me and i just told to my love that i went to chat because my friend told me he was sososososos angry with me what i say i dont want to hurt him i stoped going to chat room and i dont like to talk to any gay because i got my true love and he trust me and i also trust him a lot .and no one can some in between .we have realy stop chatting and i only come to yahoo answer .because he know if i saw him talking to any girl then i would fire that girl or i will harm my self or i wll harm him and i also know that if my mobile is busy then from distance he will fire me .so better we dont do that because it hurts very much i also get very angry if his mobile comes busy i know he would be talking to his friend but love is like that only but now i dont care if his mobile is busy because i know he love me lot .i will give you one idea make a fake id any name of girl then pm him then you will konw what he talks to other girl in what language good luck!
2007-03-04 09:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by "BE HONEST " 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wise girl..... yaar chting with other gils are just like pickles in meal with other item. You can taste all the items..... and for a moment to change the taste or to refresh your mouth you are taking pickles..... but you just cannot say that you are eating only pickles. when anyone ask you that what you ate, you definately not say that you ate pickle... even pickle will not come in your mind at that time. ........ talking with other girls doesnot mean that he loves them. they are just like pickles. And after chating with them your boy friend will get refreshed and he behaves with you more positively..... passionately..... he will pay more attention to you........ Actually I mean to say that, it is necessary for all lovers to chat with other girls on net, phone ..... actully it is also necessary to know that now a days, what girls want. when anyone can know that what you want, he can give you a surprise..... to present that what you want him to do for you.........
do you understand...........?
2007-03-04 08:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by attackforce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hv to trust him .dont hold him too tight he can hv frds besides u even if they r girls rt.
2007-03-04 09:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by ng2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋