We've been going out for 2 weeks. But were 'seeing' eachother for about a month before. Is it because the 'thrill of the chase' is over.
He always used to ring me and text me loads. But doesnt so much anymore. He doesnt seam to be that bothered. Ive ended up making all the effort.
How can i get it back to how it was?
2007-03-03 22:34:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We havnt had sex, and he is not the best looker
2007-03-03 22:37:41 · update #1
Uh well first of all why would you want to know how to stop it? the best thing you can do is just break up with him. if he's not interested, why bother?
2007-03-03 22:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for guys to really pursue a woman in the beginning and then to back off some. Does he still call once in awhile? Do you guys still see each other? If so, it may not be a big deal and you should just take it easy with him. You should be secure enough to go a day without speaking to him.
If he has lost interest already, then let him go. You haven't been dating that long, and shouldn't waste your time with someone who doesn't want to be with you. It's always easier said than done, but it's worth it.
2007-03-03 22:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are strange at this age--and women --being emotional creatures, are feeling the way you do. Only a month of chasing?? 2 weeks and he is acting weird??? Just nicely forget about him--he is immature and wasting your time. Hopefully he will grow out of it as he ages. He is really disrespectful and not at all charming or courteous...and you said not very good looking---so why stay in a relationship with him---you have NO relationship--that's a fact. Politely bid him a nice farewell---better luck next time.Aim high and only date the best--but remember school is a top priority now---for your future--and no sex either---what does it do??? babies and disease---how nice!!
2007-03-03 22:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"making all the effort". That's your clue to end it! I'm sorry, Miss Emily. But Love is a Two-Way Connection. You shouldn't want to be the only spark that's on. You're way too Beautiful to just sit and waste your Heart. It deserves to beat for someone. some, I maight add, that is really wanting to meet you. And treat you with Love & Kindness. And a Boat Load of Respect. Take care!
2007-03-03 22:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are asking us if you should have sex to keep him around.Think on it this way, if you did then 2 weeks later you find yourself back in the same place, him losing interest, how would you feel ? Having a relationship is a two way street, it takes works from you both.Sit down and talk with him, let him know how you feel.Listen to what your gut tells you to do.Sometimes it is telling you to walk away, but we hang on for fear of being alone.I am sure you are a smart woman and know what is right for you.
2007-03-03 22:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by mother hen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 05:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem happens all the time, even in strong couples! The key to the perfect relationship is to constantly do something new! It's fun at the beginning, because it's all butterflies and roses, but after a while, monotony comes in, and both of you get bored. My advice to you would be to try to do something new, something out of the ordinary, to keep him off from boring. I don't know, climb the mountains, go to the sea side with him...do something NEW! :)) Good luck !!!
2007-03-03 23:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off. This may be your only chance of sparking his interest. Sometimes that is the only way to find out if the interest still exists. But if you push, you will most definately lose him. Good luck and I wish you all the best...
2007-03-03 23:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you seem really dependent on him and you don't seem to have a life besides him. People are always more attracted to people that have a little mystery about them, so maybe you are letting him know too much about you right away. Playing hard to get does works, and also, you have to stay sexy or most guys will stray.
2007-03-03 22:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once he had sex with you, he lost interest as the you became a conquest not a prey. Maybe you could be better in bed to get his interest again.
2007-03-03 22:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋